I'm feeling really tempted to try drugs. I don't know why, but I just feel curious. I know drugs are bad and blah blah, but I don't know why I feel so tempted.
I also feel tempted to try sex. Everyone says it feels so good and its wonderful, that it sounds really apealing to me.
What's your advice/response?
2007-08-01 15:27:00 · 11 answers · asked by Rawr 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
temptation can lead to an addiction remember that if you are going through a rough time now imagine that 10 times worse on drugs.
2007-08-01 15:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by babylala_luvs_ya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are tempted, so I guess you have been given an opportunity, but have passed on trying either one I'm guessing. Why is that? Your parents and your upbringing? Maybe you don't want to break the law or at the very least lose your virginity to someone who doesn't truly love you? Being curious is a good thing, but acting on these impulses without getting all the facts beforehand could be detrimental to your health, freedom, life & your future. Please reconsider, search out the facts of why people do drugs (it's an escape from reality, it makes you feel good, etc.) and then make a list of all the pros and cons of why you should & why you shouldn't do drugs. Do the same with premarital sex, research the issue, weigh the pros and cons, and then make an educated decision, a mature decision, based on the merits of the facts set before you. If you conclude it's the right thing to do, then do it, but you have to accept any consequences of those actions as well (be sure to include them in your pros and cons lists as well).
Best of luck to you!!!
2007-08-01 15:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Andy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was curious about drugs too and i tried some. Each drug is different and not everybody reacts the same way. Some drugs are bad, like heroin (i've never tried it), and some are ok, like marijuana. If you really want to try drugs then its your choice but just be carefull. You should do them with someone you trust and only when you're ready. Trust me on this one.
As for sex im still a virgin (i'm only 15) but i know girls my age or younger that aren't. I can't really give you advice but don't do it with anyone or a guy that doesn't respect you (unless you dont care or just want to have sex)And always use condoms.
So its really up to you to decide but make sure it doesnt affect your studies, your friendships or how you act. Remember, everything is better with MODERATION.
2007-08-05 09:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try drugs. Safeguard your life. People that come in contact with drugs experience death and suffering.
Alcoholism and drugs are cunning, baffling, and powerful. Drugs have killed millions. Drugs make you so numb that you neither hurt nor cry, you can't feel anything at all. Drugs will give you instant gratification, and all you get from it is long term suffering. People don't take drugs seriously. They take strokes seriously; they take heart attack seriously; they take liver failure seriously...Fools they are, they don't realize that without the help of drug, many of these things would not happen! This is such a hated disease but yet it does not come uninvited. People choose drugs over reality. Drugs are ready to strike you with suffering and death the moment you pick up!
As for sex wait until you find someone you love. It's not so good and wonderful when the reality of sex with multiple partners is HIV-AIDES, and STD's. Abstain and stay clean. Good luck and God bless.
2007-08-01 15:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had a lot of drug experience, and altho it was a lot of fun at times, i also became dependent on them, not quite a strong addiction, but it wasn't far from wrecking my life. so i would definitely agree that the best route is to steer clear, and stick with alcohol. if you do decide u want to do drugs, my advice would be this ; keep it for special occasions, the reason i was having problems is because i did it too regularly. research everything before u do it. make sure u r in good company, a friend of mine did stuff with guys he'd just met, ended up gettin ditched in a graveyard too screwed up to realise where he was. make sure u hav a place to stay if u can't go home, be sensible with ur dosages, stay small, just cos one guy can do 6 pills dosn't mean u can. and for gods sake, stay away from crack and heroine/opium/morphine, these are HIGHLY addictive and really will screw ur life up.
as for sex, my advice is don't do anything with anyone unless u r ready and really want too. and of course, be safe and use a condom. make ur own decisions and just be sensible, and u shud b fine
peace
2007-08-03 14:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old you are but don't destroy your life by trying drugs and sex, stay true to yourself enjoy the life you have, love will come your way one day and sex will come with that, you will know when it is the right time, and don't let some fast talking dude tempt you with drugs just to get into your pants for his pleasure, stay pure and clean and you will have a great life. may God bless.
2007-08-01 15:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no, no no , a thousand times no to drugs! Please. you've heard your peers say it, you've heard your Yahoo friends say it, you've heard your school say it, and you heard your parents say it, you've heard just about every one say it and now I said it, Say No. the only people who want you to say yes, are those who want to get you hooked on it. Then you'll end up being miserable just like they are. Granted, they may appear 'cool' and act real cool but the road ahead for drug users is a dead end.
Practice that word no, until it just becomes a part of you. And don't listen to their temptations or threats. Seek some one for guidance in whom you may confide.
and don't do the sex thing either! Abstain! Just because someone else is doing it doesn't mean you have to 'give yourself away" to someone that your not quite ready to be with. Sex is a union between two people who are in love with each other. You sound like you are not ready for that step in life just yet.
Remember -- when you sleep with one person you are sleeping with the person that they that intercourse with and the person that person had intercourse with and so on and so forth and that is how STD's get started, my dear. Be wise!
2007-08-01 16:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Omg just because everyone says sex is great doesn't mean you need to throw your virginity away. Wait until the right guy comes around. Same with drugs just b/c people say they're great, don't use them. They're no good and they just complicate things in your life. They're no good.
2016-05-20 04:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, for a substitute for sex, do masturbation. At 1st, it's wow, but then you get used to it. Nothing new. And drugs. They are bad and all blah blah. Do them and you will become all blah blah.
2007-08-01 15:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should maybe u shouldnt its ur life im just sayin u do it ur hooked 4 life and u will die really early if u dont u can wait till doctors say u should if u have pain
2007-08-01 15:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋