I broke up with him i mean thats what he wanted and then in couple month he kept on bothering me every single day!! i told him that i am not going to go out with him anymore but he still says that one day i will feel sorry for him and that i will and i am really tired of him!!!! he sends me massages everyday saying he loves me and wants to hang out I told him to get lost and never write to me again but he wont listen he keeps on saying one i will still go out with him and i told him that i have a bf he said he doesnt care HELP.....
2007-08-01 15:23:43 · 13 answers · asked by Me K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just be like
" wow! your a pathetic loser! look *** i have moved on. we broke up for a reason (state the reason if possible) and its over. i want no part of you! Get it? You and i r not ment to be and its really sad that u havent moved on. i will never feel sorry for you cuz u r a loser. get the hell outta my life or i sware ill call the cops and get a lawsuit against you for not leaving me alone(i guess he's stalking u?) . adios. forever.
and thts how u do it. check my spelling and sorry for being so nasty but it has to be done. o and after u say tht stop talking to him forever and if he eva contacts u just cal the poloice or ur lawyer or something but after u do what i told u to never say anything again. good luck.. email me if u need.. i was in the same pickle last week.
2007-08-01 15:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck Cartalono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been down that road. But this guy played me... got another girl pregnant. He would call me 20 times in the middle of the night. I had to turn my phone off just so I could sleep. He would come by my house and throw things at my window in the middle of the night. He claimed he loved me, but I wanted nothing to do with him. After 6 months, the calls dropped from almost every night to fewer nights. 6 years later... he will only call me every once in awhile. Last time he saw me out he told me if things do not work out with me and my man that we could get back together and get married. I would never marry this guy after all the hell he put me through.
Sounds like this guy is obesse. You can get a restraining order on him if you feel threaten by him. Report him to the police for harassment. Change your phone number. Or you can wait until he finds him someone else. If you are living home with your parents... let them know what is going on. They might be able to help you out more than you think.
I hope this guy leaves you alone!!!
2007-08-01 15:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by hot47qt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking back to him. if you stop reacting to everything he does then he'll stop bothering you. guys have some mixed up idea that if you're still talking with them then you're still interested. if you don't want to go that route, then find a guy friend and let him answer the phone or call the guy up and act like some tough jealous boyfriend, that will scare this guy off... if not then sit him down and tell him that you don't have any feelings for him and make sure that he knows you're serious and not just playing "hard to get". if all of that still doesn't work, block his number from your phone... then there's no way he can bother you.
2007-08-01 15:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, you have yourself a serious problem! There`s nothing worse than an ex who won`t take no for an answer.
You have to make one thing clear to your boyfriend: no means no, and you`re serious about not wanting him.
Ignore all your boyfriends messages, and delete them rightg away. If he calls you, ignore the phone calls. Ignore all his attempts to contact you.
If he actually tries to approach you in public, tell him to go away. If he doesn`t seem to get the message, tell him nicely but firmly that you`re really not interested, and that you`ll call the cops if he keeps harassing you.
If you get even one sign that he`s abusive and scary, call the cops, and get a restraining order right away!
2007-08-01 15:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by JohnDoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1: horrible reason to leave her... I hope you are joking. 2: Say it nicely. 3: pick up your standards... that was a horrible reason to leave her. 4. What about bigger boobs make a girl a better candidate? 5. Shallow?
2016-05-20 04:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful!
This guy thinks that because he wants something, he gets it.
It's childish and it is a kind of neurosis.
He might become dangerous.
2007-08-01 15:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he calls one more time, you will call the cops. And keep calling them until they do something about him.
2007-08-01 15:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let this emotional balckmailing get to you ....
dont answer him and I actually recomend you to change your number!
e-mail me on chigzyboy@yahoo.co.uk
maybe i could help
2007-08-02 07:27:26 · answer #8 · answered by Chigzy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his messages, don't answer him back, it should stop. Betteryet, change phone numbers.
2007-08-01 15:28:29 · answer #9 · answered by ella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can take care of it for you probably. having someone else tell them to **** off can help.
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2007-08-01 15:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥hollyboll♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋