help ....how to end it???
2007-08-01 15:22:43 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find a new man, thats the best way to move on
2007-08-01 17:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by zuk461 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you weren't looking for advice when you got involved in this affair right? Or maybe you just ignored people that told you not to get involved in the first place. Whatever the case was, you did what you did because you felt that you were an adult and could make that decision if you wanted to. So keep being an adult and find your own way out of the mess you made. You're gonna just do what you want anyway, so all anyone can say at this point is good luck to you.
2007-08-01 16:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by gudlistnr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End what? The Affair or your marriage?
Ending the affair: don't even break up. Just stop taking calls, and stop talking to him, erase everything about him. He'll get the picture soon enough.
Ending the marriage: tell husband about the affair.
There ya go. Both scenarios
2007-08-01 15:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh so now you are fed up , but you wouldn't have been in this mess if you wouldn't have had an affair in the first place so now it is time to get yourself out of it and believe me some affairs don't end nicely.
2007-08-01 15:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Miss L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "so called" affair? Is it an affair or isn't it?
Best way to end it is just not see him anymore. If that means quitting your job or moving - it should be worth it if you really want to save your marriage. You can come up with some excuse for moving or leaving your job.
2007-08-01 15:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how you end it. Tell the person that you no longer want to see them again. To stop calling or stop coming around. If he doesn't stop, you will report him for harassment. Also, if he is married, stop interfering with other women's husbands! You don't want to be portraying yourself as a sleeze bag who goes out and destroys families. Break the chain now and go get yourself some counseling. You can become a better person if you are willing to change.
You end it if you really mean it. Stick to your guns!
2007-08-01 15:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, well...affairs are rarely positive things in the long run.
You end it by telling the other person it's over and you're moving on.
2007-08-01 15:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away. Don't encourage it. No phone calls. Continue to live your life as if he/she never existed. He/She will take the hint eventually and leave you alone. Put your frustration into exercise. This way you'll feel better about yourself and not think of it. Good Luck!
2007-08-01 15:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by candycane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, you just need to stop seeing the person.
Then you need to tell your spouse so that they can file for divorce. Your marriage is over. But I guess you know that. Your spouse deserves better than you.
You have spent all of your time being self-centered, now do what is right.
2007-08-01 15:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by madcat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
'so called' affair, whats that? are you fed up b/c you're tired of him? or did you just now come to your senses? i hope karma comes around and bites you in the @$$ w/all the other homewreckers!!!
2007-08-01 15:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋