love, comfort, keep <---What?
forsaking all others <---not get a woodrow for other wemen
for richer or for poorer <--- is this why we have gold diggers?
in sickness and in health <---Are you serious?
as long as we both shall live, until death do us part <--Ugh!
2007-08-01 15:13:16 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are definitely on the right track to marriage. #1 - love and compatibility are the key. There are no princes or princesses as we were once told. It is all give and take. #2 - as long as when you get a woodrow for other women you don't act on it just keep it to yourself. I can promise you there will be some men who keep your wife's panties wet also. You just keep that to yourselves. #3 - Is your fiancee a gold digger or are you out there advertising your (if you have any) wealth. Save some surprises for last, money after a commitment is excellent. #4 - I've had cancer 3 times, yes there is sickness and health unless you are planning on making a run for a border (and not Taco Bell). #5 - Are you ill? Do you think she has intentions of killing you. I think you should see a shrink for paranoia.
Marriage is a UNION of two people. Apparently you have already thought up enough excuses not to do it.
Are you gay and don't want to believe in that?
2007-08-02 00:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you see it from her point of view, she is probably worried that you will run off leaving her to look after the baby alone, at a time when she will be really needing security. She may think that getting married will be a way of your proving that you won't leave her (even though marriage nowadays doesn't have that power anymore). You need to tell her (and convince her) that you are going to stick around to help her and the baby no matter what, and that being married or not won't change that. You also need to make her see that rushing into a marriage for the wrong reasons is very likely to cause the marriage to fail, and a messy divorce will cause more harm to the child than not having married parents. If you haven't moved in together yet, then doing so may be a reasonable compromise. [You could also show her some of the answers here to see if they help]
2016-05-20 04:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so funny! The point of getting married is to be with someone you can go through all that with. And forsaking all others means that you will not accept advances or stray from your love. You can still get a woodrow (that is just natural) but keep it inside and save it for your love. That is why some of us "old married couples" love action (take your pick) movies.
When you do find the "perfect" one, stuff is going to come up over your lifetime: being poor, sick, having to diet, and things get rough. There is nothing to believe, it is just accepting Life as it comes.
But to each their own; if you don't like it, don't play with the girls who want it!
2007-08-01 15:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those are called vows, couples have been known to keep vows for over 50 years and be very very happy, that includes my own folks and many of my relations.
If you love someone of course you will take care of them keep them close to your heart, you won't need anyone else in your life, you can love them if they get richer or poorer (not an easy vow, people just love to walk out when its not going right or going too good), yeah and they don't walk if the person gets sick either!
Vows are created to keep a family unit healthy, protect each other and their children.
If you dont' want to keep them then stay single and wonder why you can't ever be happy for any longer than 10 minutes at a time.
Marriage is a serious forever vow.. quick weddings and divorces try to cheapen it but its going to stay despite 'modern' ideas.
2007-08-01 15:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dude its up to you. theres no where that says you have to get married. just dont string any woman along. thats all we ask.
now heres my question to you. what are you going to do. be like my friend and have 2 or 3 girls. this is all fine if you can convince each one that theyre just a peice of ***. or maybe you want to have friends with benefits. no matter what most of those people are going to want more. so this is my advice to you. if you like the drama queens and the gold diggers go for the little hotty tottys on the dance floor that have as much depth as a puddle. you can continue down the road of over obsessorsm and gold diggers etc and eventually youll find yourself alone. then what happens when you finally turn 40 orm 50 or 60 when things start to sag and you dont look so appealing. then you find yourself all alone because you waisted all those years passing up miss right.
now im not telling you to fall for the first sweet face you see. find someone who your not only attracted to but can be your best friend. someone truely compatable to your personality. ive been reading up alot about chinese astrology. it helps you know who you may be more compatable with. but honestly pray. go with your heart and soul.
what i tell my friend is to not settle. let the next relationship your in be the one. wait for it. if when you meet a girl and theres even one little thing that makes you feel like, no then move on till you find that one girl that feels like forever. also some of the best relationships start off rocky and end up fantastic. but it was only because they were always best friends first before lovers. because this ment they could get through anything together. i know it sounds like alot but when you find the right person, even if its not all perfect, which it usually isnt, youll know and everything will fall into place.
2007-08-01 15:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by solas lethe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing impossible when you really love someone.
Love, comfort and keep are what you do for each other.
forsaking all others doesn't mean you suddenly quit having desires, it means you're mature enough and honorable enough not to act on them.
for richer or poorer means no matter what happens you stay together.
in sickness and in health means no matter what happens you stay together
the last line means for the rest of your life.
2007-08-01 15:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Flavio, in the U.S., marriage is voluntary, not mandatory. People believe because they choose to and are free to believe whatever they want, even though you may think they're believing in "impossible things." What is impossible for some is very possible for others.
2007-08-01 15:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sondra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually , (comma) the statistics show a decline in divorce and that the majority of marriages these days are successful.
If you don't like it don't get married. Those who do believe them get married...well some who don't believe them get married for some reason, but that usually doesn't end up so pretty.
2007-08-01 15:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok u r just seeing it from a point of view that has or expresses no feelings.
you have to see it thru someone that share a mutual feeling in this case love.
womane are not all the same , and its the same for men. we cannot be judge by what other people do!
and by the way we choose to obey this oathe , we are not forced to believe them.
and its not impossible! but only if the people involved share this feeling......
2007-08-01 15:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you find the right person, Flavio, all these things are not impossible.
I'm curious...what brought on your bitterness? You must have been hurt badly and I'm sorry for that but, understand that not all of us women are horrid creatures.
2007-08-01 19:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋