Ok I met this guy online he cam across my myspace. and he always said nice things about me and how i looked pretty. and i never really thought anything of it, it turned out he lived a few minutes from where i did and he knew it......I moved...not for that reason but i moved a hour from there, and we where talking and he said he is 17 well i did not think anything of it..im 13.... well he started talking nasty.....still i was stupid and talked back.. when we started talking he was like what do your parents think about us? and i asked what i said where just talking online his word "if you parents wanted to be ***** they could throw me in jail" well im like your 17 its not like he was 18 and i was not going to tell anyone because it was just a online friend. well he asked he he could see my pictures well he already saw them once online....then he got more and i don;t know how. then he showed me hs and he does not look like 17 at all he looks like at least 20 something
what should i do?
2007-08-01 14:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
People are giving great answers and i thank you but...i can't tell my parents. they will be soo amd about whati talked about......i told him notto talk to me and he stopped and i got rid of my myspace i think im fine right?
2007-08-01 14:34:28 · update #1
Tell your parents!!! Or someone older that you know. Men have other things on their mind at that age sweetheart, and if he wanted to see your pictures, he probably only wants to use your body. BE CAREFUL!! Cutt him off, and dont let him know where you live. If her persist, then call the cops. Better safe than sorry. TAKE CARE
2007-08-01 14:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by firekiller 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just quit talking to him. It dosen't sound like a healty relationship for a 13 yr old to be in. You should never tell anyone very much online unless you know them in person first. Also are the pictures that he has of you...ones that you posted on myspace. If not....then you may need to alert your parents to this fact. Because there are alot of guys out there that prey on the innocence of someone your age....if you don't belive me...just turn on the TV at night....there is an episode that has been going on for quite some time....that catches guys doing just that. Most of them are not as young as they told the girl that they were. So just be extremely carefull in everything that you do. Life is precious in every way. Don't let some sicko off the internet take any of that away from you!
2007-08-01 14:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
End your online chats with this guy now. You really don't need to be stalked by a pediphile, and that is what this guy is doing. See, he already knows too much about you and doesn't even need the pictures. He's playing up to you and the whole time he feels like he's got the upper hand. Tell your parents. Let them know that this is bothering you. If you were my child, I would want to know in order to make sure that you were totally safe from jerks like this guy. Please be careful, and Never, Ever give out personal information to ANYBODY.
2007-08-01 14:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by mop-27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go right now and tell your parents and make sure they call the cops and report him. What he is doing is illegal and very dangerous to you. This guy is only interested in one thing and it's not your well being. Do not have any more contact with him. Block him if you can.
Have you seen Dateline NBC, they have been running an ongoing sting to catch these guys.
If you have kept copies of the chats, then make sure the cops get them.
Protect yourself and stay safe on the web. If it seems wrong, it is wrong and you can get hurt really bad.
2007-08-01 14:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by DSatt57 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Block him from ur myspace and call the cops on him. He sounds like a paedophile.
Tell ur parents what he is saying to u, love. Then they will probably do what they think is best. But get as far away from him as u can.
2007-08-01 14:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should stop talking to this guy and block him. there are lots of bad people out there that want to do bad stuff to girls you're age. dont give him any personal information. And if you think its nescessary, delete you're myspace and make a new one so he cant contact you. people lie, and they where many masks.
2007-08-01 14:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to him ....he's not worth it...you can find better friends anyway...if he talks to you or contacts you in any way again go to your parents or someone older...don't give him any more information about yourself....if anything else happens like he magically calls you or something dont' pick up and tell your parents...and maybe go the cops if necessary....
2007-08-01 14:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't stay quiet you gotta tell someone...thats why i dont like myspace....if he is talking nasty block him from e mailing you...or...save all the messages he ever sent you..then if something happens you have proof that he harrased you....but sweetie u gotta tell ur parents
2007-08-01 14:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever talk to him again and don't give him any personal information like where you live or anything. He can be tricking you and he may not even be that young.
2007-08-01 14:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by DCD4 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg sweetie stop wat ur doing right now i had a myspace stalker... he got my number and always kept calling me! i did everything possible and this guy kept tlaking dirty tooo i just ignored no matter what he sed... even if it insulted me i wouldnt defend myself cuz if i did he would keep tlaking to me and nagging... after a while he stopped calling and i blocked him from my myspace page.....if anythign worse happens to u from him tell someone immediately and wat eva u do: DO NOT MEET WITH HIMMM! good luck =]]
2007-08-01 14:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by <3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋