What should i be when i grow up?

Question

Technically im lost:[
I want to have dreams like other kids
but idk what to be or have any
My friends want to be proffessors or doctors
-_- Unlike me i dont know what i should do

It feels like i sometimes have no talent which is kinda hard. I know im young but i think i could work harder if i had a goal you know?

Dont tell me to find my own way-_-
or technically it might or will be too late

And I love animals but i cant bear being a vetenarian cause it hurts me to watch animals get hurt:[

and i dont want to deal with politics or anything that concerns blood.

I mean everyone wants a job that pays alot but i dont care

If i could enjoy my job i think i would work harder but idk what to be

Please help:]

1.I do like to interact with people
2.I like to cook
3.And i do want to have a family sometime in my life
4.I like music[alot]
5.Im against [prejudice and racism] thats something about me right?
6. And uhm...i cantthink of any:[
as you can see i dont really have much going on-_-

Answer 1

I don't know your age,so Im guessing some where between10 & whatever. Thinking back to when I had those questions on my mind I was in my mid teens on a solo trip,, I didn't know the answers and I didn't ask advice. I got a lot though, and for the most part did not listen. I tried all sorts of things. I learned to play the piano,and made a few bucks playing in clubs and for parties, really enjoyed that,but I never got serious and had to get a job in construction,Learned the trade well enough to go on my own and build and sell a couple homes. Went back to working in machine shops. Used a part time job to pay for flying lessons. Did o k here but couldn't get my passenger rating (baby onthe way) back to the factories.!!! I tried Moto cross and set a lap record on a track in Ma. Somebody beat it 2years later..I worked on building tall buildings, slipped and nearly fell 6 stories.Quit that and back to the machine shops.I had a little age on me now and settled in to buy a home for me and my wife. learned all I could in the machine trade moved on to designing and building machinery to package ice cream, sell soda pop all kinds of vending machines and various machines people wanted for alls kinds of specialized jobs.
Now Iv'e said a lot ,and done a lot and if I told you all the talents I dabbled in you would figure me for a B.S.A.
I never got rich or even made a really good living. Now you have a decision to make.Do you want to be like me and try everything and to late find out that in order to make good money you might have to focus on one thing, maybe not your favorite, but the one that you end up doing to survive.. There is plenty of money in any thing you might try. If you like it at all learn all about it ,be the best and make enough money to do what you really dream of. and then go after your dreams
Remember focus, focus focus. Never stop trying to do what you set your mind to. I didnt ,but you can. Money is only to get what you want . Money was not my goal and I had a very interesting somewhat exciting life. Oh, ,focusing on making money can ruin your life.So be careful to focus on what you finally find you want to do, not money!!

Answer 2

You don't have to know what you want to do. I didn't know what I wanted to be until my sophomore year in college. Other friends that I have still don't know what they want to do after graduation. You are not the only one. Just because people say that they know what they want at a young age doesn't mean that they end up doing those things later in life.

Answer 3

i cant answer your question.. nobody can.. because you havent even given us details about yurself so we can try and relate you to a job.. you just gave us like 4 details about yourself... tell us 10-20..

like:

do you like working with others?
do you want a family life?
what is the range of money you would want to make?
whats your personality?
etc.


omg! e-mail me! i love sum 41 also!
so am i still waiting! for this world to stop hating! cant find a good reasonnnnnnnn

Answer 4

You never said if you were still in high school or not. If you are, make an appointment with a counselor. If you are out of H.S., then make an appointment with a jr. college counselor and they can help you figure out what you would like to do with your life.