I was bent over at the copy machine fixing it and the UPS guy came walking in. This was this spring. After years of not paying attention to me all of a sudden I was the interest in his frequent trips. He asked me out. Now I mentioned this months ago and the only reason I had a red bandana in my back pocket was because it was all I could find to blow my noseat the moment, then I understood what it meant but, I have partner who wouldn't appreciate, but on the other hand, I don't have a ring on this nipple, still, I should just really talk to this guy and let him know where I stand, where the hell do I stand on this?
2007-08-01 12:08:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I certainly hope you wore the red bandana on the LEFT and not on the RIGHT..... Once upon a time (and it is still observed now) gay men used hankies to decipher what each other is into. Examples. Navy blue – cop, Black – leather, Blue – f**king, Red – fisting, etc. Worn on the left, it means the top, and worn on the right it means the bottom. Find the hanky code that you are into and let the guy know. You probably did not intentionally flag the color you were flagging. Unless you are a known “player” in the community, these rules generally don’t apply so no worries... Unless, there is some interest on YOUR behalf… MR. RED HANKY!
2007-08-01 12:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Tom W 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple of way I carry my gear. One way is wit a 'man bag' which is an over the shoulder bag which is large enough to carry everything I need. The other is to wear a gilet or jacket with pockets. I try not to stick things in my skinny jeans as it sticks out really bad (as in look) and its an easy target for theft.
2016-04-01 09:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sense of propriety says to do the right thing and tell him you're partnered.
On the other hand (no pun intended)....he's a UPS man!!! How many of us have fantasized about those hunks in brown?!
Maybe you SHOULD get a ring on that nipple. Of course, that just may make matters worse. You could always ask for a longer leash. *wink*
2007-08-02 04:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by behrmark 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Red bandana traditionally means fisting. If you are a fister I wouldn't mind meeting you in your tight jeans. If you're a fistee the UPS guy is probably best for you. If you are neither, just where DO you stand?
2007-08-02 01:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, my Darling, but if you have a partner, the UPS man is a No-No.
Blow your nose, put your handkerchief back in your pocket and never mind the nice UPS man.
You don't need a ring in your nipple to tell you that. We love you.
2007-08-01 12:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ah love...and sex -- two topics that are so often intertwined to the point of strangulation.
If you and your partner have agreed on monogamy, then the answer is to let the UPS man down easy. Tell him you're committed.
If you and your partner have an open relationship, then have fun.
2007-08-01 13:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by inactive account 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well if it was a red bandanna that means in Hankie Code that you like to get fisted or that you like to fist. I just hope hes not attracted to the Kewpie doll in your back pocket.
2007-08-01 12:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by Paddington Bear 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that a bandana in your pocket or are you just glad to see me?
2007-08-01 12:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what the heck does a bandana in your pocket mean? and what the heck about a ring on his nipple? what does that mean?
2007-08-01 12:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I remember that story, I think that you just have to be up front with him and tell him that you are in a relationship, but you are flattered to think that he was interested in you. Good Luck!
2007-08-02 02:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by craven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋