ok so my boyfriend cannot stand the idea of oral sex (on a girl)
he had a bad experience with one in his past and said he will NEVER do it again. this isn't fair to me at all. i know i am clean, i know i don't smell, and i just think that its extremely selfish of him to not even try it on me. i told him this and he just said "sorry, im never going to do it." what do i do???
2007-08-01 11:57:20 · 10 answers · asked by Nico 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
find another guy. or just accept it, maybe he would have been bad at it anyway.
2007-08-01 12:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by kira 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-10 23:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously men will be men, although if he's not willing to try it on you, that's his own choice. If it becomes such an issue that you are fighting over it, then obviously the relationship isn't as serious or well-rounded as it should be...good luck, and sorry to hear he's not willing to give a little.
2007-08-01 12:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by disfunkshunaldork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, whatever his bad experience was, it's in the past...
If he doesn't want to try again and return the favour, then don't do it for him. Maybe he just wasn't doing something right and maybe his previous experience got hurt.
Good Luck anyway.
2007-08-01 12:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by 3rd LIFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough love: Tick for Tat!
You refuse to give him head unless he gives you head.
Or you can get some flavored lotions and try to entice him with it.
Some men are pretty strict in their ways when it comes to carpet munching. Its sad but true. Maybe one day he will change but not likely.
You could refuse sex all together and masturbate in front of him LOL!
2007-08-01 12:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm i'd be offended if that happened to me..
i understand he has had a bad experience in the past but if he likes you wouldn't he want to pleasure you however possible? . . .
2007-08-01 13:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how important it is to you! to me, i would rather have vaginal or anal sex than oral, dont get me wrong, i like it, but thats not my most pleasure... so, if it is extremely important to you, is it worth losing your boyfriend? i have had 'friends' that LOVE to do it, then had some 'friends' that didnt like to do it... but i always tell him, YOU HAVE TO GIVE TO RECEIVE.... let him decide how important it is for him to, lol
good luck
2007-08-01 12:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't force him to do something that makes him feel uncomfortable. You can either live without, see a therapist or break up.
2007-08-01 12:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by Peace 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you'll deal with it. He may eventually change his mind.
2007-08-01 13:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him..im serious
2007-08-01 12:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan M 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋