Will I ever find love again?
why is it so hard to just find someone who understands me. I feel like I've been dating little boys. I'm getting tired of it. I'm almost 20
I may be young but I'm def. mature for my age and this my friend is the truth
2007-08-01 10:51:13 · 15 answers · asked by . 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Learn to love yourself and stop dating boy-toys. Come to the realization that you will have to accept this person as they are or not accept them. Stop excepting them to change for you. Approach someone based on personality over looks for once and see what happens or continue the same pattern and be miserable. Good luck!
2007-08-06 05:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by ta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you are mature for your age you are so very, very young. In your maturity you must realize that for your life to be successful that you do not require any other person to complete you. Every one should attain a position of being complete before seeking love. Go to college or just live your life for a while before even thinking of love.
Love is at its best when two people choose each other out of their completeness rather than by trying to find some one to make them feel complete. You have plenty of time later in life for love. For now live life care free becoming a better and more experienced you.
2007-08-01 11:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by ydrisil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice anyone can give you is "Stop looking." I was 30, had been divorced for 3 years, no strong relationship prospects, resigned to becoming one of those crazy old ladies with a lot of cats.
I started a new job, and ran into someone I had met twice before, both times with disasterous results. Well, we worked together, and sometimes he would come in to work a little early and we would get to talking. He was hitting on me, I never noticed. One day, everything just clicked.
We've been together 2 years now, and married for 9 months. I have never been happier. But, I truly had stopped looking. Love found me.
2007-08-01 10:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by mikalina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find love again, if you find like first.
People are drawn to what their own needs are, whether it be physical attraction, helping another, or being helped by another.
Sounds selfish, but that's how it goes.
Perhaps you are looking in all the wrong places, when your future partner may be right under your nose.
Love won't happen when you are on a hunting crusade, it will evolve when you least expect it.
As you stated in your first line,"Why is it so hard to find someone who understands me"
Maybe that certain someone is not lost, so they don't have to be found.
2007-08-01 12:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by jemima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy under 30 IS a boy...
I have the same problem dating women in their 20's...
They all seem like little girls to me...I'm taking a 28-year old to my 25 High School reunion...She thinks my old schoolmates will be impressed with me...(but that would only be true if she doesn't speak...hate to be kind of mean like that, but it's true...)
So you may find older guys better, or you may just find older "boys..."
The best of both worlds would be to find someone closest to your own age that is as mature as you...
Good luck...
2007-08-01 11:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure are young to be worried about finding love again... But I understand how you feel you are more "mature" than others your age. Love is like a butterfly... if you keep trying to catch it, it will keep flying away and avoiding you, but the moment you sit down and be still, it will come to you when you do nothing at all..
2007-08-01 13:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will definitely find love. I'm going to be 22 in a month, and I know we are both too young to settle down. Couples that start dating at our age don't tend to last because people change so much in their 20s. You'll find love and it will be great when you do. Don't give up, tell yourself you're worth it, and it will come!
2007-08-01 12:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mark W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not to sound like a smart-*** but you are still young..and havent really been through anything to give up on Love...I am only 23 and I KNOW that i havent been through everything...the only person that can stop love is YOU....just keep looking and you will find the right one...you got plenty of time...
2007-08-01 10:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are going to adore back. it somewhat is basically going to take you a good number of time to heal this wound. what's particularly no longer uncomplicated is once you lose somebody so unexpectedly--it leaves you questioning what to do next. the appropriate you're able to do for your self is to pass to grief counseling. Even listening to how human beings cope with that's constructive to you. you will constantly love him and he will constantly be a factor of your existence. it somewhat is o.k. to undergo in innovations him. you're able to attempt to absorb some new pursuits or pastimes and concentration on that for now. do no longer venture approximately ever loving back at this factor. it is not time for it. i'm so sorry approximately Logan. Please think of approximately going to medical care. i comprehend this sounds like a drastic step, yet you opt for help in expressing your grief in a healthful way, a manner that allows you to're taking infant steps into your new destiny. God bless hon.
2016-10-01 05:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not good giving relationship or dating advises.
if you stop looking for love, it will find you, when you less expect.
so you still have plenty of time :)
dating little boys and mature men two different thing.
when you see guy takes responsibilities for his own action and serve you, it means he is mature.
good luck to you.
keep you head straight.
S.T.
2007-08-01 11:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by steven25t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋