me and my friend had an argument earlyer and now i dont know what to do?! we have been the best of friends for five years. now this is going to sound really childish but we went to the shop earlyer and bumped in to a lad she had kissed a couple of days ago, we all stood out side and i made a joke about it, we were all laughing and, we were all talking for about 10 mins then my friend and i went inside, nothing was said then all of a sudden she started crying (she had been drinking , she is 18) and she said i wasnt really her friend and that i dont luv her (as a friend). im 14 weeks pregnant and two weeks ago i asked her to be godmum to my baby, i am really upset that we have had this argument, i phoned her a bit ago to make sure she got home o.k, then she started saying that if i ever said anything again the she would 'knock me out' even if i was 8 months pregnant!! that eally hurt as i have asked her to be godmum and everything now i dont know what to do?! please help!
2007-08-01 10:21:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
p.s i wasnt drinking! my friend was drinking, i would never do anything that may hurt my baby! my baby is the most important thing in the world to me!
2007-08-01 10:34:16 · update #1
give her time to sober up, then if she's still hostile towards you tell her, when she can be civil she can call you, until then you don't want to speak to her. How dare she threaten t 'knock you out even if you are 8 months pregnant' what a b!tch she is!!
right now you might think its a shame to lose such a 'valuable friend' but right now she isn't proving to be much of a friend
2007-08-01 22:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Little Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christ, are you sure she's not pregnant? Sounds like hormones to me! Give her a couple of days to cool down, and then ring her up and apologise, and explain that you didn't mean to upset her, you were just being silly. (Eat humble pie, basically.) I think she is probably over-reacting, but if she's really upset, then maybe she really liked that guy? It could also have been the alcohol talking, so just take what she said about knocking you out with a pinch of salt.
If she won't come round, then just leave her to it, as you won't be needing that sort of attitude from your best mate when you have a new baby to deal with. Maybe when the baby arrives, you could ask her again to be god mum again, and gauge her reaction from that? Asking her to do that might be the thing you two need to bring you back together. Good Luck!
2007-08-04 03:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by iwatchedthestarsfallsilently 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she was drunk id say try calling her again when she is sober, we all say things we do not mean when we are drunk, if she still kicks off then maybe try telling her how much her friendship means to you, if she is still being a prat then just let her go, some people can be stupid, i know it may hurt your feelings alot but it will be for the best, you do not need people like this in your life, i have a fiery temper but i would never turn it on a friend, especially not one that was pregnant!!!, and i have been in some situations believe me, oh and PS i would seriously re-think who you are asking to be godmother to this child!!!.
2007-08-01 13:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by I belong to me. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something else eating at your friend. you need to try and find out what this underlying problem is. was she drinking due to mood or socially?
if ye are best friends ye should be able to work through this and put it all behind ye. but the fact that she threatened you is a different story. Maybe she is jealous over something...your going to have to question her to find out.
i hope you will be able to sort tis out soon as there is nothing as worse as loosing a best friend.
if she threatens you again and u feel for the safety of urself and the baby i hope u can get the courage to report this to someone who may be able to help you. even if she is your best friend you better be safe and stay safe.
and i wish you the best of luck with your pregnancy
2007-08-01 12:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sprinkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some friends are not worth having especially ones who drink a lot and threaten to knock you out at 14 weeks pregnant. Go to antenatal classes, you will meet some grown ups there.
2007-08-01 10:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Oldgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, this is one of those occasions when both sides have to be considered. Maybe a mutual friend would be your best recourse.
2007-08-01 11:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by d00ney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time let her rest for a bit she might have been drunk and she might have not been thinking dont worry
2007-08-01 10:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jillian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She had been drinking.... let her sober up then call her.......... and for heavens sake, please dont drink if you are pregnant...
also it sounds like she might be jealous of your baby..........
2007-08-01 10:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋