ok, a few days ago, I was playing truth or dare with a few people. I was dared for a guy to put his (you know) in my mouth for 10 secs. He did, and he was limp ( not erected). He is known to sleep around with other people, but we never had sex and he didnt ejaculate in my mouth. Today and for a few days, my lymph nodes are swollen in my armpit and neck, could I be infected with HIV, is that possible. This guy is in the military and married, though does sleep around. Please let me know what you think. Thanks!
2007-08-01 10:14:42 · 21 answers · asked by LoveMyBubby 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
Better get checked out for gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, and any number of more common sexually transmitted diseases. I hope this becomes a valuable lesson for you...
2007-08-01 10:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by correrafan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just a coincidence. I think the chances of getting HIV from a guy who didn't ejaculate in your mouth is probably really low. I imagine it would take more than a few days before you would start having symptoms if you did have HIV. You can get an HIV test done now, but you won't truly have accurate results for another six months, because it can take up to that long for HIV antibodies to show up in your body.
Talk to your doctor about getting a test done just so you can set your mind at ease. You can also go to your county's health department for testing as well. Find their number in the phonebook and call to see if you have to make an appointment to come in. I know the health department here you have to make appointments generally but there are a couple days during the week for a few hours where they take walk-ins. Planned Parenthood as well...I believe they do HIV testing as well.
Next time, pick truth and not the dare okay? :)
2007-08-01 17:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Angelia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 2005 the CDC polled 10,000 HIV+ patients. Of the 10,000, 1 person was found to have contracted the virus through oral sex in which ejaculation DID occur. You don't know whether this "gentleman" had the HIV virus, and ejaculation did not occur, therefore your risk is lower still.
The mouth, esophagus and especially the stomach are a violent place for the HIV virus. The chances of him being HIV+ to begin with combined with the chances of you contracting the virus through oral sex leads me to say that you don't even need to worry about being tested. You did not contract HIV.
But your lymph nodes are swollen, so you should see your doctor. It's likely they are swollen due to stress or a bacterial infection (those are easily cured).
Good Luck, God Bless
2007-08-01 17:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by StGabriel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the symtom wont show up that fast if you did get aid from him. I have a medical background and I think that you may have just gotten a cold. It usually takes 6 months or so to get the symptoms of aids or HIV. If they are still swollen in a few days or a week maybe make a doctor apt. to see if the doc will get you an anti-biotic. If you got anything from his "thing" more than likely it was just a yeast infections yes guys can get them and spread them to others. (I had a yeast infection and could not figure out how I kept getting it back and the doc told me that I gave it to my husband and he was the one that kept giving it back to me, so we both got treated for yeast infections) hope that I was of some help
2007-08-01 17:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by mary m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any guy in the military who puts his wang in your mouth and then say he is married and an alright guy... Do I really need to explain this? HIV doesn't show up in a few days, but you may want to see a doctor for bacterial infections that would cause your problems. And in retrospect, where the hell were you playing penis truth or dare?
2007-08-01 17:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by sur4ed 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm... probably not, typically you can only get it from someone who is infected and ejaculated in your mouth, or bled. If it makes you feel better go to the doctor.
Your lymph nodes being swollen could be a number of things, don't jump to conclusions yet.
2007-08-01 17:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont have acute HIV symptoms that quickly due to the nature of the virus (which I wont go into).
Sounds like a coincidence to me. Perhaps you are feeling anxious because you decided to help a married man cheat on his wife?
You could get an HIV test now, but it is not even measurable for a few months.
Later,
2007-08-01 17:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan Pediatrics 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't get HIV infected. HIV can only be spread by exchange of bodily fluids (semen or blood). Your lymph nodes are swollen due to some kind of flu bug and you had the bug long before your truth or dare game. You'll want to see a doctor about the flu bug.
2007-08-01 17:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by steven_p_ohio 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no, u can only get hiv through blood, semen, vaginal fluid, and breast milk, and since he did ejaculate in ur mouth and his d**k wasnt bleeding, u have no worries, ur fine, the swollen lymph nodes could be from an existing infection though so u might wanna get checked out, but no sweetie u dont have HIV....and dont play dirty games with married men anymore
2007-08-01 17:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Nacho Chacho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You would not show symptoms of HIV that quickly but yes you could get HIV if he had any body fluids leak out of his penis. It not likely you would have gotten HIV but since you are worried go get tested for STD's INCLUDING HIV. You do need to get the swollen nodes checked out too.
2007-08-01 17:18:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like I've been playing Truth or Dare with the wrong people!
2007-08-01 17:20:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋