i know they suck the engery out of you.. but is there such a thing as you get mad around one.that you dread going near that person.. that when you know your going to see the person or talk to them .. you get cranky..
2007-08-01 09:24:22 · 8 answers · asked by vis 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
my bf.. ex is like that to both of us. i tried to give her a chance.. i thought it was because she left him he felt that way.. but when we pick up the children.. i cant even look her way.. i get mad .. boiling mad.. and for 2 DAYS before i know were going to meet her it get the kids l feel this way
2007-08-01 09:26:36 · update #1
zimma you may be on to something... but since i will no longer be bringing him to pick the kids up.. and they will be going over it his moms house with them ...maybe it will be ok.. after all i am only a gf.. i should not get involved
2007-08-01 09:49:52 · update #2
Honestly I think you've got two potential issues that are separate.
Psychic vampires do exist - there are people who will feed off of your energy and emotions leaving you tired and vulnerable and emotional. If you let them. If she is doing this to you and your boyfriend I would suggest that you learn how to shield yourself so that she is no longer able to leech off of you. It will be hardest the first time, but will grow easier.
The fact that she makes you mad when you know you're about to see her is probably from the fact that she's not a very nice person. Since she's an ex- of your bf you automatically aren't going to like her since it sounds like she hurt him. My brother is this way - when he knows he's about to interact with his first wife (they have 2 children together) he gets angry and moody and ugly. We have to point out to him that he's behaving like this so that he can try and temper it.
Some people bring out the worst in us. Unfortuantely all too often we find ourselves sharing our lives with them. When you feel this way, try meditation and focused breathing. To paraphrase from Eleanor Roosevelt "No one can *&## you off without your concent."
Good luck.
2007-08-01 09:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Zimmia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a sense, we are all vampires.
We all give and take, and we all balance eachother.
Money is a form of energy, and we all live off of money.
We all take other peoples time, and we all give others our time.
Everything is energy, and we all take from others.
To lie about it, would be lying to yourself.
Now, do others drain way more than the norm?
In short, Yes.
But it's not a verdict that could be decided with a paragraph worth of information.
Wish Fulfillment plays a big part, and many times we have to take a step back, and think, is it us that generates these feelings, or is it really being caused by outside forces?
Maybe you get cranky cause shes a (insert slang term for female dog).
Hell Osama Bin Laden makes me cranky, is he a Psychic Vampire?
Who knows.
In short, no one can say if So-and-So is a Vampire or not, with a two sentence long statement.
Hell, no one can say it with a book long entry.
Information can be slanted/biased without even noticing.
Just take a step back and look at yourself first, analyze your feelings, and if you are able, check out your subtle body for any links between the two of you.
If it persists, shield yourself, and live life as usual!
In the world, you can not simply get rid of wolves simply because they eat bunnies.
Sure, it's not nice to eat bunnies, but without the wolves, we would live in a world overrun by bunnies.
Soon enough our government would be run by dictator bunnies, and who knows what they would subject us to!
Wolves are a necessary balance to the bunny scenario.
Psychic Vampires are a Natural Balance to the people who naturally give off way to much energy.
Although they may be bothersome, they are a necessity to maintain our universes equilibrium.
Hope this helps...
2007-08-01 16:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by sanguinehuman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Psychic vampires do exist, it happens to many people to be honest.
I have had it in the past, I find it happens when you are either irritated, or if something is physically/emotionally exausting you. Your mind takes control at night and tries to take the energy from the nearest person.
To me, it happened to take my gfs, who for about 6 months (if not longer now i think about it) woke up more tired than when she went to sleep. When we figured out a possible reason (being the psychic vampirism route) she made an amulet to protect against it and hasnt had the same problem since.
2007-08-01 17:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by Xzar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your anger before you get into her presence is your emotions only...she may suck the life out of you when you are near her and that would be psychic vampirism...maybe you get mad because you resent her doing it to you?
2007-08-01 16:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriends ex isn't a physic vampire and she isn't sucking the emotion out of you.
You are relying upon your anger as your strength as a defense against her. So, when you release your anger you are actually draining yourself of energy.
2007-08-01 16:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by Quexner_the_wonder_leech 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one you can control is you
2007-08-01 16:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no such thing! you really need help
2007-08-01 17:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by ITALLIAN STALLION 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That may have more to do with jealously than anything else... And if I were you I would spend more time understanding this situation then I would being angry at it........................................
2007-08-01 16:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋