k my bf doesnt like to go to the movies and stuff . and she always talks behind my back now i dont know who is my best freind i just fill im my own best freind i want some one who loves shopping and loves going to the movies and loves cheer and stuff.. buit that is 13 i cant find her PLS HELP
2007-08-01 08:58:27 · 11 answers · asked by girly girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
u cant find best friends u start as friends then u become best friends dont look hang out with ur friends and the person who is ment to b ur bff will find u
2007-08-01 09:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Best Friend Forever - like a soul mate - they are rare.
Hang out with girls your age who are interested in the same things you are and eventually you will gain the closeness.
As for the talking behind your back.... not very nice but it happens all the time and especially at that age.
Good luck. Be yourself.
2007-08-01 16:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Collette L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not uncommon for friends to grow apart and get different interests once they reach high school age. You can still be her friend, but my suggestion is start socializing with girls who are interested in the same things you are. You find them by joining lots of extracurricular activities, like cheerleading and other clubs your school offers. You'll find like minded people there who enjoy the same things you do, or they wouldn't be in that club. Good luck.
2007-08-01 16:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try joining groups at school or at church. Somewhere where you can meet other girls your age. Maybe you will find one who likes to do the things you do. It is hard to find a best friend. But don't give up. There are lots of places to find them. Good luck.
2007-08-01 16:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by melody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know about BFF, but you'll have a better chance of finding her if you make lots of Friends with lots of different interests.
2007-08-01 16:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look around your school? find someone that likes the same things as you, talk to people in your classes and meet new people through other people.
2007-08-01 16:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start going to more groups at church and school. Or you can just start hanging out with some other people that you know. And be yourself and don't be desperate!
2007-08-01 16:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by lalala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look around at skool or find sum1 who u knew 4 a long time
2007-08-01 16:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not the one
2007-08-01 16:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by sahil m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finding a boyfriend at your school
2007-08-01 16:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by tamera b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋