2007-08-01 08:44:44 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
God Amy, Please tell me he didn't say that !
If he did, it would break my heart but, I would
throw him out in a heartbeat !
That's just mean !
2007-08-01 09:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ouch
probably be deeply offended
i would lose the weight (for me only), but then debate divorcing the person lol
when I gained a lot of weight after having 4 miscarriages and then having a baby back to back, my husband was nice about it
I lost the weight for my health and to try to stay "cute" for him
but he was really great about it
he wasn't like get away from me you big fat fatty or something
and he certainly didn't turn down any lovin!
gosh I don't want to say divorce that is extreme but if this happened to you or someone you know that the person that said that needs a serious discussion
2007-08-01 08:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by soulflower 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that could be construed as mental abuse and he doesn't deserve to even be in the same class as you. I would tell him go to have 4 kids and see if he was as slim as he used to be after that and then I'd loose weight if I wanted to and leave him. He's not good enough for you.
2007-08-01 09:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I certainly understand the desire to want to find a significant other attractive, but I think voicing it in this way is a form of emotional abuse.
I would not sleep in the same bed as my husband if he ever spoke to me that way. I would tell him he is free to pack his things and leave any time he wants. I wouldn't even want to have sex with him after that, even after losing said weight.
I hope you're not having to deal with this yourself. If a man is saying things like this, it is meant to be intentionally hurtful to his wife. This is probably a symptom of a larger problem, or else he is just shallow scum.
2007-08-01 08:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by higherlovetx 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh Amy, I hope this is just a question you thew out there and doesn't involve you personally. I have so many thoughts concerning this question going through my mind that I can't answer just now. I may be back ???
In the meantime if you feel the need to talk email me please.
I will send you my personal email address
on your yahoo if you have a way~~~Jill
2007-08-01 13:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, send your husband to therapy! Then tell him that you might make love to him then!
You are going to have to take a stand for yourself! Don't let someone treat you like this, you KNOW you deserve better girl! YOU KNOW YOU DO! Enough is enough and you've been through more than enough...get tough and stand up to him!!! You would never treat him like this and you should remind him of that too.
2007-08-01 10:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
After knockin him the f*** out I would tell him to go f*** himself...I will lose the weight and make love to someone else! I dont think sex with him would be the same after that comment or that big of a beat down he got! lol
2007-08-01 08:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ace 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
While still married I took my 354 pound body to the gym. 2 years later after loosing 170 pounds...he had what he wanted. The problem was that he was not man enough to keep it. The joke at the gym was when you added in the weight of the ex husband, I had actually lost 395 pounds.
2007-08-01 08:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Madam Naka 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Seriously, I would probably tell him to f*ck off. Either that, or I'd at least tell him that he'd be waiting a long time for sex. Or wait, maybe I'd say his wiener wasn't worth losing wait for. Regardless, anyone who says something like that to his/her spouse deserves whatever they hear.
2007-08-01 08:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him when he grows some friggin brains I'll make love to him. Chances are you will lose weight b4 that ever happens.
2007-08-01 08:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by odd 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is kinda harsh. i mean no offense to your spouse at all. but he cant toy with a womans emotions like that because we can be very sensitive and there are many ways to take what he said. He cares about your health that he wants you to have kinda a reward after all your hard work but you may also think that he doesnt care and he just wants you to wait it out because he doesnt like you for who you are, but you married him and he cares about you, and if he doesnt there is no point of staying with him
2007-08-01 08:55:37 · answer #11 · answered by Khadijah 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋