With out knowing your circumstance all any one can do is to offer some good general advice. I will do my best. First of all I want you to know that you as a human are of great value. The very molecules that you are made of were born in the stars quite literally. You are a princess of the universe and as such recognize that you have inherent value. The next thing is realize that life tends to be on the tough side so don’t expect happiness. Happiness comes around once in a while and then fades away. Choose to be content with your self but always strive to improve. Contentment is a choice that does not depend on anything but you. If you act with honor and compassion you will be rewarded with self-satisfaction and the love of those who know you. Not many people live in ideal circumstance and those who do, do not appreciate it so value what you do have. There are many who are worse off than you. If you have trouble getting started on having a sense of self worth start here. I valued you enough as a person that, even though I do not know you, I answered your question with all sincerity and best wishes.
2007-08-01 08:33:39
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answered by ydrisil 2
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In basic, it's time for a change. Get rid of the parts of your life that you hate (unless its family because there is no way to get rid of them permanently... they will always be a part of your life. Whether you like it or not), and find ways to replace those parts, or at least change them for the better.
If this doesn't work, remember that it's all a matter of perspective. In all likelihood there is SOMETHING in your life you like. You always have a choice, you can focus on the part you hate or the part you like. Doesn't mean that the other part isn't there, but it'll seem less pronounced. So next time you hate your life focus on what you like about it.
2007-08-01 10:01:45
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answered by Kristin ^_^ 3
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Change your attitude and belief system? Stop feeling as though you are a victim? Read this: *The complete Idiot's Guide to Toltec Wisdom*. Do this: exercise and meditate diligently; yoga, tai chi. Help others.
Once your vibration goes up a bit via the above, you will, notwithstanding the utter horrors going on daily because of the terminally unconscious and selfish agendas of the psychopaths who run the planet, feel it is all worthwhile. Always works :))))) Good Luck !!
2007-08-01 13:41:24
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answered by drakke1 6
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There is nothing that needs to be done. People love life when they are getting what they want and call it happiness. The pressure to find 'meaning' in living causes misery and is completely unnecessary. Living is all that needs to be done and that doesn't require permission, membership, rules or any other culturally imposed nonsense. There's no need to love or hate anything as both are just ideas without any real meaning. The human organism has no social needs. It only lives until it stops living. Everything else is social BS and means nothing to the human organism. You may be closer to living a natural life than you think.
2007-08-01 09:07:53
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answered by @@@@@@@@ 5
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Well, when I feel that way, I find something worth loving in that "hated" life: like an animal or a plant or a sunset, or even the smell of my favorite food on the table, and I try to concentrate on these things, and appreciate them and my time with them. Forget about "huge" and "heavy" things that we call life. Life is much simpler and closer to us, then we think.
All the best.
2007-08-01 09:11:10
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answered by julia b 2
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First off, life is what you decide to make of it. This is the big classroom where we set ourselves to learn various lessons back between lives. The quicker you get on with learning the lessons, defeating any bad patterns, the quicker you can move to conquering the next learning experience. If you have not conquered that lesson, it will keep showing up.
If you don't like your situation, then it is up to you to change your mind, change your feelings, and then work to make changes in your circumstances. You can try to reprogram your thoughts, but you cannot shift your reality until you change what you put your emotions into... particularly negative emotions, since they tend to be stronger.
I work from home... what do you think I will attract when I say, "Holy crap! Look at all these web orders! I'd better get cracking on them before the next swampload shows up!" That's right... more orders. And believe me, I give thanks for every one of them!
I have to ask some questions: Are you depressed? Do you feel helpless? Have you given up? That's when it is time to turn your head around and rethink your thinking processes. What you think about manifests into reality, particularly when charged with emotions. Look for the patterns and defeat them.
Another thing I will recommend is finding out your exact birth time and location, and getting an astrologer to work your charts up and interpret them. At around age 28, and another at around age 58, there is something called a Saturn Return in your chart. This is the cosmic drop-kick that makes you look up and make course corrections. if you are not where and what you need to be on any level (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, career, etc.) you will experience upheaval. I liken it to being picked up and dropped into the middle of a trackless swamp that it takes a couple of years to battle your way out of. I'm not kidding on this one.
2007-08-01 09:02:48
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answered by revsuzanne 7
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Learn to love hate.
That way, you will love hating life, and love every minute of the hating.
You will be the best life-hater out there!
You go, girl!
2007-08-04 14:54:23
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answered by Tuna-San 5
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listen how old r u?then if u have Boy friend he can help u to go threw that . and if u don't have one try 2 think but in Good way in life and may be if u make some Little changes in your life it can help.but u have to tell me what your problem is , then i can help u .
any way u are just like me .
haya_girl14@yahoo.com
u can contact me in my e-mail that u see now any time
2007-08-04 04:16:31
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answered by bad girl 1
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Make a positive change.
Really though that is just pop psychology cleche'. Without going into details on why, and when it would be very difficult to answer your question.
2007-08-01 08:34:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Try travel, it is reaky fantastic, but you must go to diferents countries an see otheures cultures, probably your home city is as agly as you say
2007-08-01 09:50:45
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answered by ferrari_zz 5
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