It's taken since I was 19 (I'm 32 now) to get the cojones and the strength to confront him and stay on point and I did not once lose my temper. I finally put him in his place and kept my dignity. I'm no longer afraid of him. Thank you JESUS!
2007-08-01 05:22:28 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
YAY!!! I went through the same thing about 5 years ago. It feels GREAT, doesn't it?? I was gonna say celebrate by kicking his a** but noooooo..... Go out with the girls and enjoy your new found power and freedom!!
2007-08-01 13:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure as a man and never having the same fear as a women it is hard for me to explain what I would do. I think it best not to be a man and stand with one foot on the kill holding your weapon for a picture. That's just crazy men ****. Be smarter than that. I believe one doest need to celebrate in any manner just getting past that fear and confronting it is a big challenge and knowing you have the strength and power inside you should be enough. Talk to your friends do what you need but enjoying the kill like a man may come back to haunt you if you really aren't that kind of a person inside.
like I said I am not a women and I don't know you, so you need to do what you know is best and what ever it may be don't go over board, you don't want to lower yourself to his standards or you have just become that person you feared.
Have a great life, smile always.
GB
2007-08-01 06:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... with that major obstacle out of your way, now is a time to reflect on what other fears you want to confront and be done with!! Take this powerful feeling you have and move forward with momentum.... girl.. you are a NEW woman. Go get your hair done, pamper yourself... do those things this ex has said you could never do.... but be true to yourself.
I would suggest writing down in a journal what you did, said, and how it made you feel.. so if (no, when) you encounter another man JUST like this idiot, you'll remember what you had to live through... and you'll NOT do it again.
Go on girl.. it's your time. Don't waste it!!!
2007-08-01 05:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is really great! Nobody should be afraid of someone else, especially someone who is supposed to be an important part of their life. It takes a lot to face the person who you fear. You did good.
Celebrate by doing what makes you happy.
2007-08-01 05:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Breezey is saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well since that's out of the way, You are totally right you really need to celebrate, Go out with some friends and have fun, Dont think about anything just go for it, You need it gurl!!
Have fun! :)
2007-08-01 05:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by LIL MISS VIXION 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on your strength. I made myself a nice dinner for just myself. And then bought some expensive clothes from Nordstrom's online. I felt so free. Thank God you got that monkey off your back.
2007-08-01 05:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great job! Never be too afraid of who you're with. Go out and celebrate with some of your girlfriends, go out to a bar and enjoy the night!
2007-08-01 05:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by saraeh_w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hip Hip Horray! You go, woman! All ex's need their come-upins. I was afraid of my abuser husband before and after the divorce. It took a while but you are a stronger woman than you realize. STAND UP TALL AND PROUD! You are woman, hear you roar. Buy yourself a massage!
2007-08-01 05:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by missellie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations... I know how you feel. I was always scared of upsetting my ex, so I never told him how I felt. But once I did, I felt so much better...
Best way to celebrate... night out with the girls or friends or even by yourself to celebrate your independence!
CONGRATULATIONS AND GOOD JOB!!!
2007-08-01 05:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by EmilyJune 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Great, Now go out with a friend at the same place he go and make your ex or mad. Cool.
2007-08-01 05:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by sofar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋