So there is this boy who works at the same place I frequent everyday. I can tell he was interested in me because I would always see him looking at me, or checking me out, giving off the vibe that he's interested in me. He would follow me around but in a subtle way. I like him too, so I wanted to take things further.
So yesterday he was near me, and I felt it was a good opporunity to talk to him - break the ice - I guess. Become more aquainted. I asked him if he wa using a specific item and gave me this "whatever look" like - like he pointed to it and gave a consending shrug and pointed to it. I was like whatever to this dude. He was rude.
After that, I ignored him becuase he was a jerk and forget it. There are lots of nice guys out there. Anyways, he was mopey and depressed last night after it happened. This guy seems slightly drama to me. That's not attractive. But, am I wrong for losing interest in him? I feel bad now because he's all mopey. What is up with this? Talk to me.
2007-08-01 04:41:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yeah, I was just like whatever, I just asked you a question and he got all huffs and puffs. LOL! I lose interest fast if somebody acts like that.
2007-08-01 05:10:39 · update #1
Bathhouse? LOL! No.....come here let me bubkake you for such funnyiness. You deserve a thick batch to day. It's a gym.
2007-08-01 05:25:21 · update #2
What? I'm nice. I just like nice guys. I don't like guys who are jerks. He was dicky to me.
2007-08-01 05:27:34 · update #3
my avatar, I love you. you are hilarious. you have great wit.
2007-08-01 05:39:31 · update #4
u ask great questions,u gotta b/f already aintcha?
2007-08-01 12:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by tasty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since he works there and you frequent it everyday I assume we are talking about a bathhouse. That being the case I may have given you that look as well because of whatever "specific item" he wasn't using. Of course I wouldn't use them after he would anyways.
As for the other part, he may not have known how to respond quick enough and he probably regrets it. Give it a second chance, maybe a smile or two and a nod. Then approach again. If he does the same thing then I would say forget it. Don't ever give up on something you want if you don't get a clear answer.
(EDIT) I would say I love you as well, but then again I have never seen you due to my eyes always being "glued" shut.
2007-08-01 12:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seriously... why are you worrying about it? If it seems like he has a lot of drama, run! Run as fast as you can. Who knows why he was mopey. All you did was ask him a simple question that deserved a nice, simple answer. You didnt ask him on a date or anything personal.
Dont feel bad about losing interest in him. There are plenty more where he came from. Dont waste your time on someone who can have mood swings that easily and is not a chick... lol
Good luck!
2007-08-01 11:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by sweetblueyes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say try to talk to him about something non-work related. Because honestly working in retail, it gets annoying when you think someone is cute, and you know they think the same.. then ask you a work question... I mean you can break the ice that way, but try to talk to him about him or something else... He might not be drama, he might have just had a bad day or got asked that question 80 times before you asked him... It's not an excuse for him, but maybe an explanation... if you like him, I still think go for it. If it doesn't work out then you learn and move on... Good luck! :)
2007-08-01 12:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jyse 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im thinking hes is either trying to play hard to get or aint really sure about his own feelings ........ dont feel bad b/c he was a jerk to you and you do deserve somone alot better. But if you want you can just ask him whats wrong or somthing like that and if he is a jerk then really just forget about him . But everyone does deserve a second change at least thats the way i think in many situation. Good Luck.
2007-08-01 11:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dude sounds pretty overly emo to me, too. There are plenty of other hot guys out there that DON'T come with a lot of drama, and are secure about being Gay. I'm sure you'd be much happier with a real gentleman, and not some male drama queen.
I remember once, there was this guy who had his eye on me, and I liked him, too, but I was a bit shy about approaching him. So, what did he do? He walked right up to me, looked me in the eye with a smile, stuck out his hand and said, "Hi! I'm Mike. What's your name?"
Needless to say, we clicked immediately, and had some very nice dates after that. THAT'S how a gentleman gets things done.
2007-08-01 11:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt feel bad i mean did he feel bad that he cud have posibly hurt ur feelins? he myt have been mopey and depressed for a different reason - maybe thats y he was being lyk that wif u. If thats the case then wen he snaps out of it he myt apologise but if not then ur ryt gurl hu cares. Jus leave him as u said drama isnot attractive and obviously u cud get a lot of other attractive guys and i he wil get ofa it soon enuff and start following some body else
2007-08-01 11:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think this person is overreacting. Anyway, if he's been interesting to you all this while, why let a question that made him uncomfortable come in the way of you knowing him better? Don't feel bad about it, though, and don't let disappointment in people be an easy emotion for you.
BTW: What's going on between you and myavatara? :-P
2007-08-01 14:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have been nervous...and he didn't know he was being rude. Maybe he was so scared, he just froze up. I do that sometimes. I act extremley rude to people I like. I know I should stop. But anyways, I think you should give him a second chance. If he's rude this time, then forget about him.
2007-08-01 11:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by This Is Radio Clash 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He blew his opportunity and since you got a general idea of how he carrys himself consider it a favor to you!
2007-08-01 11:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by pattiof 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be nervous or shy. Give him one more chance before you move on.
2007-08-01 11:46:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋