its it possible to have a mid life crisis in your early 20's ?

Question

im 23 going on 24 and i have no clue what i want to do with my life, how to go about it or where to start. the college situation is horrible, it seems as though i cant finish its very frustrating. ive lived a very sheltered life. i never really had to work for anything. and its hard to try to go out there and get simlple things done that any other person my age can get done. it just seems like its taking me forever to get my life going. and to make things worse is that i lost my brother last year and im still not over his death . i t was the first person that i have ever lost in my life and the first funeral that i have ever been to in my life so that was very tramatic for me. people are wondering why is so hard for me because i have been given everything that i need, i have never wanted for anything. this is something that i am struggling with myself

Answer 1

LAMO!!!!! Yes the social catch-22. Yea people expect you to just forget about everything and just comfrom. Thats it buddy really everyone's dealing with your same problem, just in there own way. Mid-life crisis? Not quite, try LIFE CRISIS. See you didn't have everything you needed, ooo you had food, water, shelter, proubly even plenty o attention. But in the end the single most important thing you can every give a person, your childern, your friends, your lovers, is a gosh darn PURPOSE!!!! Nothing, I mean nothing beats having some sort of purpose, direction, or meaning to your life. Shoot watch BraveHeart, 300, or even The Last Samuria and a whole buntch of other movies, feel for the charaters, because they actually have what they need, you on the other hand, like the rest of us, are just TOLD we have everything we need. So until then your just as lost as the rest of us and your only choice is Apathy.... ENJOY! Or you FIGHT.... which well it be for you? Me well this is my own brand of fighting in a world were the legal system looks down on volence even with a purpose.... darn society....