if someone you were in contact with on a nearly daily basis just stopped responding to messages and calls.It's been over 2 weeks. I can't decide whether to feel worried, hurt or annoyed.
2007-08-01 02:52:39 · 23 answers · asked by 1sleepymama 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
♥ I know how that feels... its happened to me a few times, where I've became friends with someone and we were getting pretty close and then all of a sudden they quit calling, messaging or contacting me in anyway. I try to contact them and they dont respond.
♥ I always get worried at first then hurt.... because I never understand wut I've done... just hang in there and contact them once more and say that you'd love to hear from them & you hope things r well... and then leave it be. Who knows why people do this.
Good Luck!
2007-08-01 03:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on where you live in relation to that person, if you were in contact with them on a daily basis and it doesn't seem that anything has gone wrong between the two of you, I would go see them, make SURE everythings ok. It's possible that you said something that ticked them off without realizing.
Another thing to consider is every now and then (well, I do this, can't speak for anyone else) I go thru this phase where I just need a break from EVERYONE. and then no one hears from me for like, two or three weeks. That could be what's going on here.
Either way, I would investigate, but also don't be a bother. If you've tried them multiple times and they haven't called you back, I'm sure there's a viable reason and it may not even have anything to do with you. Calling them countless times will only annoy them further with whatever is wrong.
2007-08-01 09:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by Some Lady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, all those emotions are valid.
I don't think you have to decide what to feel - your feelings are your feelings. What you have to decide is whether or not to take action. You can try again to send messages and calls, but if these go unanswered, I think you have to accept the fact that the person does not what to continue the relationship. It's true that this is not a nice way to end a relationship - the person should be willing to discuss it or to tell you what's happened. However, you know not everyone in the world is nice or does the right thing.
But you tried your best and now if there is no response, the best you can do is to let go. I know it's extremely hard and painful, but that's how life is sometimes. You will have other relationships and I hope they will be good ones.
2007-08-01 10:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by happy inside 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would put on camo face paint, fatigues and take enough supplies for a week.
Then I would go to the last place I knew they had been and start my search.
I would check with their neighbors and relatives, and if that didn't help I would try to bribe someone at the police station to check on their vehicle and let me know when it is spotted.
Then I would keep following them around without being seen, all the while, calling their cellphone every half hour.
If they still never answered I would.....
Nah ! On second thought, I'd just watch tv until they called me.
The first thing just sounds like too much work!
2007-08-01 10:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Eveready 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those situations make you go through every emotion, don't they?? Worry, hurt, anger, more worry, sadness, more worry!! Be patient maybe there was something that happened (death in the family, vacation, etc)...I would give it another week and then leave a message saying that you are worried and a bit hurt that this person hasn't taken the time to return calls/messages!!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-08-01 09:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by mikeluvsginger 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it's someone I was really close to, I would try to find out what 's going on. Maybe I said something they didn't like, or maybe something bad happened to them. People don't just stop talking for no reason. And if they do, they're not worth worrying about. Try to find out what happened.
2007-08-01 09:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by chloe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best friend got a girlfriend and now he won't return my calls, e-mails, myspace messages, or anything. I feel sad and betrayed. I also feel like I shouldn't have trusted him as much. I know he's ok, so I decided to stop trying. I'm sure he'll come around again.
2007-08-01 09:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by imthecheesynacho 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try being in a relationship like that??? It's the not knowing what they're situation is that they're not keeping in contact is the worst part!! Good luck!!
2007-08-01 09:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by stoutunicorn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would feel all three...I would try to contact someone else who knows that person to see at least if they were OK. If they were I would just not bother anymore and wait for them to contact me if they chose to...
2007-08-01 10:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anglcake 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be hurt and then angry or annoyed. I'm sort of in that situation too and I don't know why...
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