Who hits her in the face and beats her, Who is violent when he drinks, Who does not have a job or wants to work, Who was in jail for drug dealing and is on parole, Who does not spend a dime for diapers to food for his kids, Who does not have a high school education or GED.Who cheats on her .
2007-08-01 01:27:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What's your question?
Why are you standing by on the sideline watching this when you can provide a safe haven for your daughter (and more importantly your defenseless grandchildren)? Do something; their lives are in danger!
This joker is on parole? Contact the police and his parole officer the next time a violent incident occurs.
2007-08-01 01:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by D S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure that in the beginning this level of abuse wasn't there. Many times you can liken this type of situation to the old question of how to boil a frog?
You put them in a pot of cold water and turn the heat up slowly, they will just sit there. Sad as it is that's the way it begins. She may not see what you do and she won't leave until she's ready, but you can help.
Provide her with all the necessary help to get away, a therapist, a ride to a shelter if she fears for life, a way to move to another city and start over. Running away isn't cheap or safe. Many times the abuser threatens not just their partner but their parents, kids and anyone else that they know is loved, including the dog or cat. You might think he wouldn't have the guts to really kill you or your grandchildren or her, but statistics say differently.
Get professional help start reaching out to anyone and everyone you can think of to help her escape. Pick up the phonebook and start the ball rolling today.
She and her children are all that matters and it's time for you to make her safety your number one priority.
2007-08-01 01:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by indigolady1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is the only one who can answer that. I'm sure that she feels that she can change him. She can not make a change for the better until she realizes that there is more to life and that she deserves better. Give her time to come around and pray he doesn't hurt her in the process.
2007-08-04 13:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by RPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women often suffer from what psycologists name "the cinderella complex". she is constantly looking for men that are obviously stronger than her, somebody to rule her world, even if that means abusing and hurting her. maybe it would be better for your daughter to talk to a counselor, to a therapist who could help her to get over that feeling of weekness...
2007-08-01 03:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by uptowngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love.
2007-08-01 01:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is foolish, and she "thinks" she loves him.
2007-08-01 01:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Viola G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋