Would you forgive someone if they wronged you, but they were totally honest with you about it - before you found out from someone else
2007-07-31 23:41:56 · 16 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Honesty is important, but TRUST is the most important thing. Someone could be honest all day long, but if they are being honest about being an a$$hole, then what difference does it make? Forgiveness is purely subjective. In other words, what you consider forgivable, someone else may not.
2007-07-31 23:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by ~ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in my marriage honesty is of the utmost importance. We are after all these years completely honest and secure with that. When it comes to friendships I can hold a grudge for a lifetime, so depending on the situation, I may never forgive
2007-07-31 23:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by TrajedyinMotion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is tantamount to friendship. No honesty, no friendship. forgiveness for being "wronged" depends on the offence, regardless if the person owns up to it or not.
2007-07-31 23:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Always Curious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is VITAL in any relationship.
Yes, I would forgive someone who wronged me,if they were honest with me about what they did and why they did it.
2007-08-01 00:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather find out the truth from them and not someone else!* Honesty is actually a very important factor in any relationship I think because lies between each other can't build up any trust!*
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2007-07-31 23:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Hunni Bunni xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It values a lot to me. Because how can you still love that person if you know that person is not honest to you or you do not trust the person.Honesty really matters to me.
2007-07-31 23:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by john kent r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd forgive but never forget the wrongs that were done.If the 'wrong' was major I'd be wise to forget forgiving coz that's how we do it where am from.
2007-07-31 23:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i highly value honestly, because nowadays is hard to find such thing. And i'm willing to forgive if someone has done wrong to me. i want to be treated like that too, if i have done something wrong!
2007-07-31 23:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends, but usually yeah, it does shows that that person did a honest mistake and has nothing to hide.
2007-07-31 23:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. White lies are OK with me, but if someone seriously wronged me I wouldn't care if they were honest about it. If it were that easy, we could all do whatever we wanted to do!
2007-07-31 23:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋