when it is 'impossible to success in their love' and both got to know the hard part of the fact...!
Is it possible to move as just close friends, if they decide it?
if at all if they keep move, is it really a just friendship?
2007-07-31 22:38:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think it is...why not?i mean if you both see you can make it for lovers ..you can stay close friends..just see how that goes and how you feel about it..ok? good luck!!!!!!
2007-07-31 22:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by joanna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. First of all its impossible to reverse the time so how can two people who love each other can just b good friends.
And maybe somewhere along the line it can happen but never too soon that is switching from a love relationship to just being friends in the blink of an eye.
To recover from a relationship takes time because you are emotionally and sometimes spiritually involved (Im not talking about physical initimacy here); and if some one says that after being deeply in love now we're just friends then that was not love at all!
True we can move on but never too fast and most certainly we can never go back in time!
2007-07-31 23:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once involved in a personal relationship with someone you hope a friendship has been established. Barring cases of extreme betrayal or physical abuse, these friends are ones that can last a lifetime. It is likely that some feelings will be hurt and adjustments will take some time to get used to. A "cool off " period has to elapse, both realize it is for the better and try to respect each others decisions. This can be a long process of years or quick if it is mutual. Time heals and the value of the original friendship can be recognized. A true friend wishes the best for another persons happiness and peace of mind where ever they are and whom ever they are with. Try to remember that you reap what you sow. good luck!
2007-07-31 22:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by angela r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible to move as "just close friends" but by doing this ppl just deceive themselves.
I don't think u can be just friends only because you were not able to be successfull in love.
I agree you can be gud friends but u'll still have hidden feeling of love in ur heart.
It can be a real friendship but not "just friendship"
2007-08-01 02:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so,
cz to turn out of being lovers to just friends will be so hard on u both
other than there is a part in u both who wont accept the fact of this transform
but try it it wld work
best of luck n remember there is nothing impossible!!!!!
2007-08-01 02:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by A's 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being someones lover for some years this is no longer ordinary to work out that individual as ur buddy. extraordinarily for actual enthusiasts, it is going to be no longer ordinary. there's a answer to each concern. they could proceed as acquaintances quite nicely yet constantly there'll be a feeling someplace of their recommendations that ''oh how the guy grew to become into whilst he/she enjoyed me'' and a great sort of different issues are going to sum up in ur recommendations. With acquaintances everybody is unfastened yet to be unfastened with a pal who has been ur lover isn't ordinary. they are able to in straight forward terms have an outstanding social dating yet no longer friendship. that's greater powerful to be enthusiasts or to compliment separate paths.
2016-10-08 23:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by niehoff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through this situation. I have fallen for someone at work, I wanted to be her boy friend and I love her very much but the thing is that she said she donot love me at all and she is not interested. So as my love is true and unconditional, then I decided to be a very good friend of her so that at least she will be in my life as a good friend to give me a hope to live and move on. But trust me its too hard, its very very hard because everytime we talk and get in touch, I talk to her as a friend but somewhere in her mind she know that I love her so she replies in a very strange way because she still donot believe me and think that I mite be trying to push her in the corner to love me back.
I mean its a kinda very mixe up condition, it works out sometime but it really depends on the both sides, if both sides are thinking positively because I have really decided to be a good friend but sometime I really feel that she is not feeling comfortable with me because of the thingy i told her and now as she is close to a friend of me at work and it is 100% sure that she is interested in him so everytime mistaknly if I cross her when she is with him, she get annoyed and that changes her mood as well.
I hope you understand.
2007-07-31 22:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing in the world is impossible as this word itself says I M Possible. But the thing you are saying will be quite tough in the practical field.
2007-07-31 22:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by Upal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is verrrrryyyyy difficult.
listen to this:
Friendhip always ends in love... but love in friendship never!!
it is very difficult to be close friends after u were lovers. coz one of you wants more than friends and the other just wants to be friends. and it cant work like that!!
2007-07-31 22:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really,Really hard !!! It was not love if you can change love into friendship ..............!!
Never and never. You can just do it when you r a person that break up with other first
2007-08-01 00:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by Darrek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u can end up ur love life into a frienship relation...
if u love her she may treat u as her close frnd n vice versa...but d levels r up n down u ppl may not stick to a particular decision...d saying is true love does not end in friendship...!!!
2007-08-01 00:11:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋