I'm flatchested and stuff my bra alot. All my padding came out at a party and everyone saw.?

Question

I am flat chested and really ugly. I can barely fit into a 32A but I pad my bra with gel inserts and padding cut outs to a large B cup or a small C cup. I was at a party and I looked really good and I was trying to show off to a girl that hates me at my school and I was wearing a tube top and she pulled it down in front of EVERYONE!! Everyone saw and I'm sooo embarassed. I don't know what to do.

I'm 12, I turn 13 in October.

Answer 1

omg,that must of sucked so much!just act cool.if you look like you are addected by it people will keep bringing it up.best of luck xxx G

Answer 2

hun you're 12. i didnt get breasts until like halfway through my freshman year. now i'm a senior and have a size C cup so just because youre flat chested now doesnt mean you will be in a few years.. this is so weird... my sister is 12 and she doesnt even care about this stuff... dont worry about what other people will think of you and dont say you're ugly! I know for a fact that you are beautiful and no one should ever EVER make you feel ugly. and you know what? they know now so you need to stop wearing the padding. you need to get some new friends and cute shirts and enjoy life flatchested. believe me, there are going to be times when you'll wish your boobs werent there... (seventeen magazine usually has pretty cute ideas for shirts that can help girls on the smaller side look a little fuller) or you can just look for more frilly (or material that stand away from the shirt to give it more of a layered look)designs around the chest. stick to halters and regualr t's. tube tops wont do you any justice. you have 8 years.... most women continue to grow through their 20s. dont stress about it!!

Answer 3

She needs a stretchy training bra, not a padded bra. She's too young for a padded bra and no 12 year old with an AA cup needs to look bigger than that. Why would you want your young daughter to look like she has a bigger chest than she does and have random pervs looking at her? Some kids want to grow up too fast but they still look like kids. Any kid would look silly, silly, silly in a padded bra. Only the kid wouldn't realize that, but you should as her mother. Get her some really cute stretchy training bras or sports bras for now!! : }

Answer 4

Girl, don't try to be something you're not. Have a lil' faith in yourself and you can do anything if you set your mind to it. I see a lot of people are influenced by those blonde bimbos in glossy mags etc, who have that 'perfect look'. BS! They're nothing but a bad infuence, and if you have any faith, you'd stop using padding and realise that there is no perfect look/ size. You are fine the way you are - it's the way god made you! At the end of the day, beauty is only skin deep - don't let it get you down hun, and ignore those people and what they think! You have to have some self respect!

Answer 5

ok first of all
most gurlz in those ages don't have huge boobs but some do
and why would u stuff for a party..when everybody already knows what u look like at skoollll.....and why would u call ur self ugly that's just putting urself down..and if u keep doing that your alwwayz gonne be depressed and feel unacctractive..and u say ur ugly ur probably not even ugly..ur just don't look like a celeb..becuz .yah so just forget about the past and say hello to the future walk around wiht ur head held high..and tel everybody who putz u down..that u don't care what they say and that u love urbody becuz u got it for a reason..i mean god put it there for a reason so yeah..and remeber nobody'z perfect

Answer 6

i am 12 and i am totally flatchested it doesn't matter if u r not flatchested be happy with yourself and for the girl who pulled down ur tubetop ignore her do not give her the satisfaction of making u upset . u should stop stuffing it is sleezy and who cares if u don't have anything wouldn't being flatchested be better than having everyone know u stuff ur bra. i know someone who is 14 and is flatchested she doesn't mind and u shouldn't either be happy with urself

Answer 7

lmao that happened to a girl in my school a few years ago, She had gotten into a fight and Her shirt got pulled all the way down and toilet paper fell out of her bra....Laugh it off...Your keep thinking about it, Your going to be even more embarassed...besides your 12, Most 12 years olds are flatchested..So no need to stuff..

Answer 8

You should really Not stuff your bra. Your too young. Don't worry like you mentioned your only 12 I'm sure they'll grow. And if they don't hopefully you'll have other options. Look on the bright side if you have small boobs they won't sag with time and guys will praise you for it.

Answer 9

dont worry alot of embarrasing things happen to people n school.....and they just forget about it..u mean that person has gotta have no life to b talking about this 2 yrs later...and people probably think shes a betch now. there was a rumor when i was n 6th grade that some girls made out n the bathroom...and nobody would even remember it now if i asked them about it...im in 11th now.o yea also atleast u havent cried n front of ur teacher

Answer 10

Remember this: small breasts won't stretch and fall to the knees like the gals who have the big ones.
You'll get over this embarassment - you'll be the happy one when you're 40 - 50.

Answer 11

I'm pretty much flatchested too and I turn 13 in october too.So we have a couple things in common.Send me an im or message sometime.I don't stuff.