How can someone consider themself fully gay or fully lesbian if they had sex with someone of the opposite sex? If they could actually go through with it then they must have wanted it.
2007-07-31 18:27:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No. Sometimes you just want to be something so much. I wanted to be straight...I had sex with women..I just didn't admit to myself what I really was... In the end it's all just friction..anybody can have sex. The sexiest body part is your brain...
2007-07-31 18:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I've thought about this, and having talked to some of my straight girl friends, I think I've come to a little conclusion, no one is 100% straight, everyone in their life would question themselves at some point about either, same sex or opposite sex to them, but what trully matters is whats in the heart, and you know who and what is in your heart and nothing will change that. Having said that, sex is sex, and any kind of sex will be good, if a guy gives u a ********, you are more likely to orgazam and even quickier coz the guy would do a better job at it then a girl, but that would not neccesseraly make you gay, just curios, experimenting and trying. For gay people, the pressure is always on to be straight, so most do it because of that pressure and even some are curious to see if they might be straight, u know who u are from when you are little, you know who and what you love and what you want. My friend is straight and she said like even if a girl touched me id still get turned on coz its a touch, no matter from who, its sex and its gonna feel good, but when it comes to love and what you really want some people require characteristics and wants from the same sex rather then the opposite, because thats what stimulates them more. Im more gay then bi girll and I've been with guys before, Iv never had actual sex with one , but iv done some things, and they never really aroused me as much as my ex gf did. Plus, you really dont chose who you love, I didnt choose to fall in love with the two girls that i have, and i really dont love every girl, love is something that usually finds u, be it same or opposite sex and its something that shoudnt be denied because its wonderful.
Hope that helps u understand a bit more..
2007-08-01 03:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend, sex is sex. Homosexuality is an expressed preference of one's own sex over the other, but that doesn't entirely rule out the possibility of sex with a member of the opposite sex. Additionally, homosexuality is accompanied by a lifestyle and culture all its own. One can subscribe to this culture but still have sex with the opposite sex. Its like different kinds of apples. An apple is an apple, but some people prefer green ones, some prefer yellow ones, and some like all of them equally. In the end, its all about love, and pleasure. The participating parties are really not terribly important.
2007-08-01 02:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay or not sex still feels good. I mean, a vagina was made to put a penis into it, so regardless, it will feel good for a gay guy to put his penis into a vagina even if he's not attracted to the vagina. Obviously women like things in their vagina (penises usually, but dildos, carrots, etc.), because it feels good, because human beings were made to feel pleasure when they have sex. I don't think being homosexual means someone is unable to feel pleasure from sex. But the thing is, being attracted to the person you have sex with and having a connection definitely makes it a more emotionally fulfilling and physically satisfying experience. Hence, sex with a very unattractive person might still be okay, because it's sex, but sex with Kim Kardashian would be a LOT better. I know this sounds crude but I think I'm right.
2007-08-01 01:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i myself tried it because of the pressures that were being put on me by family and society and such... plus i was depressed at the time. So i tried it to see if i could fake it for the rest of my life. If it wasnt that bad then maybe i could just be "normal". But I know who i am now, and i dont give a sh!t about what people think of me, because i know what makes me happy. And i know that i do not like having sex with guys.... Plus its human nature to want to expiriment... just because someone tries something once doesnt mean they want it all the time... if they continuously have sex with the opposite sex as well as the same sex, then they arent gay, they are bi.
2007-08-01 01:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are few people who are fully gay or lesbian. It is not like day and night. Most likely a person is like say 90% gay/lesbian and 10% straight or something like that. I hope this answers your question.
2007-08-01 02:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think one factor is because society has such ugly prejudices against homosexuals, even to the point of brutally beating or worse gay people, that many decide they are heterosexual and never question their own sexuality until later in life.
2007-08-01 02:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by tynquerbelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question..
i dont know from experience, but im thinking its like people who have sex and just dont like it..
rare as it is, there are people who just dont.
i mean, if a girl has sex with a guy and doesnt like it, doesnt mean shes a lesbian, but why not try it out to see if thats more comfortable?
i dont know if that made much sense,
sorry
2007-08-01 01:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People sometimes experiment with other sexualities, doesn't make them gay
2007-08-01 01:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by for Da Ben Dan--Dennyhill 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are straight-curious?
2007-08-01 02:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋