ok so this summer all of my friends from last year have been making out w/ their boyfriends and going to clubs and other cool stuff and i feel like i haven't done any of that and now i'm about to cry because i know when i get back to school every one is going to be talking about what a cool summer they had and i haven't done anything cool =.(
Say something inspirational to make me feel good about my self please.......
2007-07-31 16:23:03 · 21 answers · asked by -->[[Katie]]<-- 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i don't really want to make out with anyone because i'm trying to be modest
2007-07-31 16:24:28 · update #1
but i still feel left out
2007-07-31 16:24:45 · update #2
We're here for the exact same reason honey, we're all losers.
2007-07-31 16:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sub Poofy 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
maybe try to thing the the good things you have done this summer? Even if they weren't "cool" maybe you did something fun with your parents, or acomplished a goal. Don't put yourself don't just because people have done things you haven't, surely you have done something they haven't, even if nothing pops straight into your head. And if you feel like this sepearates you too far from your friends, well, maybe they weren't great friends in the first place and you should see who else is out there.
2007-07-31 16:28:47 · answer #2 · answered by kirstywoo2u 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know what??? I believe you are a very special lady. You don't have to run around with your friends and do what they do because you are different, your special And yes you should feel good about yourself. I should know i was like you growing up and I still am proud of myself. I am one of the only ones in my group that didn't do drugs or get pregnant because I just didn't do that!! You don't have to ex plane to anyone but yourself. And you know what My kids are probably older than you and because of me being like I was they were too and now they are starting to have kids and are so proud of the way they grew up. Be careful of your surrounds and the people you run around with. Don't let anyone talk you into something you don't feel comfortable with. And the main thing that helped me was that I accepted Christ into my heart when I was 8 years old and he really helped me alot. You can do this be you don't be like everyone else!!!!
God Bless
2007-07-31 16:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Katie, I am going to tell you what I told my grown daughter. There is a time and a place for every thing. When the time is right it will just happen. Don't feel left out, don't rush it. As if you do, it will be the biggest mistake you'll ever make as a kid. Relax. Let things happen. But don't have sex until your old enough to handle the responsibility of it. And good luck hun!
2007-07-31 16:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by lady S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't be. Party's get out of hand. I remember when I was a junior there was a HUGE part (one that I wasn't invited too....). I wasn't the only one that heard about it. The principle get wind of it he punished the football players that were responsible for it. They also got a hell of practice that night too. Well the point is don't be concerned with what they're doing, live your own life. If they wanna leave you out then all you can say is thats fine. If they don't like you for you then going around with them probably won't be too fun anyway.
2007-07-31 16:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by BWA 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't feel left out!! Just cause those other sluts and whores are throwing themselves out there doesn't mean that they are better or cooler than you!! They are the kind of people who will get into bad things and never succeed. So keep your priorities together and get new and better friends! xoxo
2007-07-31 16:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
its ok alot of girls go through this just rember you are beautiful their is a soul mate out their for u and just come on your own time dont think u have to just cause yr friends do it if it makes u feel better i had a crapppy summer to
2007-07-31 16:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by shelby92793smile 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if your friends arent goin to any clubs with their boyfriends just ask if you can tag along....your not the only one whos haveing a bummy summer
2007-08-01 03:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw i feel like that too. but i've gained confidence this summer & your friends have probably been making bad choices anyway. so don't get sad be glad =D
2007-07-31 16:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Sound of Madness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not pregnant, You don't have S.T.D.'s and, You still have Your self respect.
Sometimes, it's not good to, run with the herd. that's usually where the hunter is aiming, thinking He's bound to hit something.
2007-07-31 16:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by ny21tb 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i kinda feel that way too
when you go to college make new friends and make it a goal to do these things.
2007-07-31 16:26:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋