2007-07-31 16:20:37 · 13 answers · asked by Alenn T 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
You should not worry about being popular. Do you really want everybody knowing what you do every step of the way? Think of it as being a movie star being followed around all the time. no privacy. You need to know who your true friends are. Sometimes with popularity, your friends are not always true. Remember that the popular kids are not the only ones that have fun.
2007-07-31 16:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by hot47qt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to become popular is to not worry about whether you are popular or not. When you are the kind of person who is confident in yourself and your beliefs, goals, etc.,without worrying what everyone else thinks of you, you will automatically draw people to you who will respect you and admire you. Stay true to yourself, don't do things just to make other people happy, and be willing to accept that some people, no matter what you do, will never like you...but NO one will like you if you try to be something you are not.
2007-08-01 13:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by missbeans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This probably isn't what you want to hear, but being popular will not necessarily make you happy. On TV and in movies they highly exaggerate what it is like to be popular. In real life the "popular" kids are mostly fake and snobby, and probably not the kind of person you want to be. It's better to find some real friends who you have stuff in common than to try to fit in with the popular people.
2007-07-31 16:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by Siryn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no "x + y = popular" that I, or anyone else, can give you. Honestly, if you look at it this way, most of the people you're trying to impress at school you won't even know in the years after you graduate. Just be yourself, and you will make friends with people who like you for you.
However, if being popular REALLY is your concern and matters to you, then you probably have to scrutinize your hygiene, watch what you eat and do, be athletic, and make sure you're in shape.
2007-07-31 16:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by publius1787 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about being popular. If you be yourself I'm sure people will look up to you. If the dislike you for being yourself or for not being popular than their definitely not your friends. Hope this helps!
2007-07-31 16:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you wanna be popular you gotta be fake. buy the expensive clothes, have the cool hair, cool car, have sex. it takes a lot of wok and ill tell you its not worth it. everything seems so important now but once school is over and you graduate youll understand. its better to have great friends that would do anything for you.
2007-07-31 16:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by futurenurse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
personally, i think it's better to just be yourself, even if that means you're not all that popular. i have a lot of trouble keeping friends, but i wouldnt trade the freedom to be myself for the need to constantly do what will impress people just so they'll stay my friend
2007-07-31 16:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Shay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust me. don't try to be popular. it just makes you look like a fool. i've seen people who think they're cool and they just try to be someone they're not and it just gives us so many laughs. the popular people are the people who can have fun in their own ways.
2007-07-31 17:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by DCD4 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its bettter to be popular with your teachers , to study hard and do the right thing.With your peers then I suggest that you be yourself and play nicely.There is popular and popular.It wont bring you happiness.
2007-07-31 17:12:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
play all the sports offered at ur school and ttalk to ur teamates and u will be popular
2007-08-01 04:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Superman_trackstar_07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋