lots of girls have massive boobs at my school, and its really annoying when girls are like, "have u even started, do u have hair under your arms yet." blah blah blah. then they will laugh at me if i answer no. Its kinda annoying. what do i do??
2007-07-31 16:15:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
ugh! people can be so annoying. The only reason the girls are teasing you is so that they can feel good about themselves, which makes them pathetic because it means they obviously don't have anything else to raise their self esteem. you should have pity on them and let them talk all they want. I know its hard, and you've probably heard this before but just ignore them. And don't stress it. Puberty is overrated, i mean seriously, who wants hairy armpits??? oh yeah! that definitely makes them cool.
Eventually though, the day will come when you hit puberty, and your body will practically change over night. and then you'll be all hot and sexy and new and everyone is gonna be all ova you. and all those girls are gonna be jealous.
lol. I know I exaggerated in some parts but I hope this helps...
2007-07-31 16:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by lalala 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know, kids are always cruel, picking on those who are different. So you're slower to develop than your classmates. There's nothing wrong with that. Each person has their own schedule. When I was in the 4th grade, the kids in my class started calling me Tissues because they were sure I stuffed my bra. I developed faster than anyone else in my class, literally going from nothing to a B cup overnight. They'd chase after me, snapping my bra. And the one time I went to school without one, because I was so new at it, I was picked on the worst. We had to run laps in gym and it hurt so much that I had to run with my arms crossed in front of my chest. My teacher wasn't sympathetic at all!
I'll also say this. Now that I'm an adult, and still have massive breasts, women everywhere come up to me and say they wish they had even part of my size. All the while, I'm envying them for their small breasts.
My advice to you is just to ignore the kids who pick on you. If they still won't let up, why not answer their questions with a question of your own: "Is there a reason why you need to know?" I wouldn't be surprised if the reason they actually ask the questions is because they're not completely sure what's going on with their bodies and they're trying to find out if THEY'RE normal. If you ignore them, or brush of their questions, eventually they'll give up.
2007-07-31 16:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Really, I wish I could give you miracle anwser to make it stop, but I sadly can't. The only thing you can really do is tell them no or it's none of your buisness. Don't feel down or let them know how much it bothers you when they do the cruel things they do. Be happy with yourself, be confident with your body and let them know that you don't care..... girls can be such drama queens at times(even though I am a girl).... that's why I prefer having a mix with my friends, girls and guys. I know what you mean with the 'massive boobs' as you put it... I don't have big boobs but I don't care I'm confident in my own skin and people stay away from me and never tease (good or bad thing... idk). Just know who your real friends are and stick with them. To me the only peoples opinion that counts is my family and close friends and you should think like that too!
Luck! <3
2007-07-31 16:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be grateful! I was in the same boat, hun. I didn't wear a bra until middle school, and didn't get my period until 8th grade! Eventually, you will be grateful, I promise. They are inscure about themselves, so they feel like they have to tease you. Just be confident in yourself, and one day, when you have a cute figure, you can laugh at them for having hooters the size of Jupiter! :)
2007-07-31 17:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by nerdandproudofit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls are just mean sometimes! you are best to just ignore tham and be the bigger person....they are just insecure in themselves so they have to find someone else to pick on...if you don't let it bother you then they will most likely move on to another target that they can get a reaction from! good luck with them! and everyone matures at their own rate -- everyone is different....its okay if you havne't started yet!
2007-07-31 16:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by shaelyn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well even if they say its super cool to have to shave every day then they are just trying to get at you.and boobs are there for one purpose and one only...children and if they think that they should flaunt themselves they need a huge reality check...just be like ooo good for you wear a bra...but I'm just happy your wearing clothes.humor is the best medicine.
2007-07-31 16:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by *Shelby* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ignore them, teenage girls are b *itches. Puberty will come, there is no question about. dont rush it, shaving everyday and having period cramps and bloating every month is not fun. enjoy your purity while u still have it.
2007-07-31 16:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by kira 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell them that they need to leave you alone, so what if they have a bigger chest then you. Everyone matures at their own rate. don't worry abotu them they are just being jerks. Don't let them push you around like that. And say to them to leave you alone.
2007-07-31 16:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by kimmymariexo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its really sad how there SO insecure that they have to pick on someone else. You'll just have to wait. everyone is different..goodluck<3
2007-07-31 16:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by =] 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just come up w/ a snazzy comeback, because ignoring them will be very hard
2007-07-31 17:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋