he doesn't know i saw but wat i do i'm a guy and so is he
2007-07-31 15:45:54 · 28 answers · asked by ken 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
when i saw it i kinda liked it and saw him jacking off to it.
2007-07-31 15:52:39 · update #1
you should sit beside him and lend a helping hand
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2007-07-31 15:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is clearly gay. If you are a true friend, that should not matter to you. He is not going to hit on you, or try to come on to you, so relax. I would give it a couple weeks and see if he comes out to you, if not, ask him. Sound like a friend, though, not a pig. Be like "I saw you watching some porn the other day..." Let him know that you are there for him as a friend. But only do that if you really are.
He might just break down and tell you. Or if not, don't press it, he should come out on his terms.
2007-07-31 22:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell him not to watch porn, either straight or gay. Tell him that if he watches porn, his brain will turn into mulch. That he will get the wrong information about sex and relationships. Tell him that in a casual conversation, not like "I saw you watching gay porn!! you f*g!!" Rather "you know, this friend or brother or cousin went to my house with a porn video, but I told him not to watch it, because it pollutes the mind."
2007-07-31 22:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by Frank V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. He may have just been curious, or maybe he likes dudes. Either way if he is your friend why does it matter. If you have a gay friend that does NOT make you gay.
There is a friend in my crowd I've known for 20 years (i'm 34). We are all pretty sure he is into dudes, but he keeps that part of his life to himself. We don't talk crap about him, it's just came up a couple of times. None of us care.
If that is what your into.... It looks like you have a potential boyfriend.
Live life & party,
Fitz
2007-07-31 22:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Fitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly care about this friend, then you should not make him feel negative about his sexuality. If he is young, he is feeling confused about who he will eventually be; he wants to see men as he sees women, and finds that he can gather pleasure from watching both of them.
If your friend indeed is homosexual or bisexual, encourage him rather than feel ashamed of him. Who we are is who we are, and I think that he is trudging through a very difficult time in his life. Allow him to experiment to see what sort of person he feels comfortable as.
Accepting that he is not "straight" may be difficult if you cannot imagine your friend not sharing your interest in the same gender, but being a true friend is expressing your concern in an understanding manner.
Whether or not he chooses to see the opposite gender is beyond your control. Keeping him away from what he truly is will sever the ties of friendship, rather than strengthen them.
2007-07-31 22:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by John Sidney McCain III 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, if he is your friend -- you do nothing to harm him -- which means you don't tell anyone else for starters.
Then, you look at your own feelings. You kinda liked it -- there is nothing wrong with that. Accept him, as whatever he really is -- and accept yourself.
Once you have done those two things, you can consider telling him that you know and that its alright, and asking if you can watch it with him.
From there, go with what you feel.
Peace, and remember that you are GREAT, just as you are.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-07-31 23:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. I would probably just ask him if he is gay but try to do it in a non-threatening way. He might be bi, who knows just ask. I would not tell him right off the bat what you saw him watching. He may get deffensive.
2007-07-31 22:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by justjrry 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
JOIN HIM! HE'D LIKE IT!
jk jk
i wouldn't mention anything about it man.
it might just be some kind of porn fetish.
or he could really be gay
but either way he hasnt said anything so he obviously isnt comfortable with anyone else knowing.
i'd leave it alone unless he tells you something.
2007-07-31 22:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by FiT AND FiNE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i take it you guys are teens? I dont know if there is anything to do about it. In the whole scheme of things, does it really matter?
If you need to do anything...be a pal. Let him know you are cool with it, and it's ok for him to confide in you.
2007-07-31 22:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What business is it of yours what he does or does not choose to watch when he is alone? YOU are no better than a peeping tom, and a gossip.....I feel sorry for your friend, if he thinks you are a friend.
2007-07-31 22:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communicate with him....ask him about it.....just talk to him.......if you liked what you saw...... was it seeing the gay porn or his reaction to the gay porn....??????.......think about that and you should have your answer.
2007-08-01 15:05:57 · answer #11 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋