my friend came out last year, and she has started to hit on me. i mean i'm pretty and i do get a lot of guys, and its kind of flattering, but she's just not my type. maybe if she was skinnier i would change my sexual preferences....what should i do? i'm so confused!!!
2007-07-31 15:43:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I pity that poor girl if she thinks YOU are her friend.
2007-07-31 15:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your friend is really hitting on you or is this just something that you are feeling because you are uncomfortable about her being gay and because you are so accustomed to being hit on. It's very rare that a good friend who becomes gay will hit on her straight best friend. There's a way that gay women deal with gay women deal with straight women that sometimes comes across as if they are flirting, but in reality it is just them being friendly in the way that gay women are friendly. Don't freak out, just continue the friendship, there is probably nothing there.
2007-08-01 01:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by lochmessy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gave us compatible body parts for the purpose of having children. She may have gotten off to a bad start, but she'll figure it all out some day. Be patient and friendly, but don't encourage wall-banging, beastiality (doing it with animals) or same-sex waste of orgasm.
If something is a good idea, like Jesus' command, "Love your neighbour, as do yourself", you would wish EVERYONE did it! The world would be great if we would LOVE others (not sex...love!)
Imagine if ever one was queer, what would the world come to? Humans would become as extinct as the Dodo bird! It's a "sick" idea!!!
When her "biological clock starts ticking", and she wants a baby, she'll find a promising man to father her children, and learn to "lie there and take it"!
It's not as hard as she thinks. ;-)
2007-07-31 23:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Birds of the same feathers flock together.If you are not the type she is,quit her relationship and start all over again.I would better loose the whole world than share platform with characters i do not approve of.
2007-07-31 23:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by mukwathagicu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just politely ask her to back off. Tell her your flattered but not interested.
2007-07-31 23:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by shadowofu_love29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with her and talk to her. Gently tell her that you are flattered, but are not interested in girls and that you value your friendship with her and would like to continue your friendship as it is.
2007-07-31 23:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and if she doesn't stop, then quite being friends with her. That is why I am not too close of friends with lesbos, they get turned on by pretty chicks but usually emotions. EWWW!
2007-07-31 23:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
say exactly what you just wrote........"it's flattering, but, I'm just not interested in taking our friendship down that road"
2007-07-31 22:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Nobody believes the stories of a troll.
2007-07-31 22:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
well, so much of a friend you are. Another story to fabricate yet?
2007-07-31 23:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋