How long married and if your husband/wife died would you ever remarry..My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and if god forbid something would happen to him i know i would never ever remarry cause i know i couldnt find anybody as wonderful,sweet and special as he is...He is my best friend,soulmate and love of my life and will always have a special place in my heart and i know i could never feel the same about another man but i told him that if something ever happen to me that i would want him to remarry cause i wouldnt want to see him lonely but he said he would never remarry either.
2007-07-31 14:20:42 · 16 answers · asked by kellie r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I did ask a question lol.
2007-07-31 14:24:09 · update #1
And dont tell me i might feel different and someday would remarry cause i know how i feel about this.
2007-07-31 14:27:55 · update #2
Pic i feel the exact same way as you do.
2007-07-31 14:30:29 · update #3
I've been married for almost 3 years, not much, but I plan on spending the rest of my life with my husband. If he ever passed, god forbid, I would not remarry. I can't imagine my life with another man. No one can replace the man I met, even those annoying little habits of his. I found my soulmate. He said he wouldn't remarry either, for the same reason I won't. I guess in some relationships people feel different and would remarry, but I'm not one of them. I know I wouldn't later think differently. I feel very strong about this. I won't be sad, sitting around lonely and depressed. It wouldn't be easy to get over though. But I would try and celebrate his life and share the knowledge he shared with the world. I want him to live on, just as he would do for me.
2007-07-31 14:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive only been married for 4 years , but we have been through alot of hardship . I went to war in Iraq for a year , she live in another state of the first year of our marriage . We together now and are extremely happy , Never fight , always agree on things and love doing the same crap . So what Im trying to say is no I wouldnt remarry the though of kssing someone else or rubbing someone else back , or the thought of sleeping with eachother , is repulsive . My vote is no !
2007-07-31 14:31:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only been married for 5 yrs. I think if he passed, and IF I found someone that I loved with all my heart I would remarry, as I would expect him to do the same. You never know what feelings may arise in the future.
2007-07-31 14:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for almost 7 years. When you enter into a relationship you always wish for a lifetime together. And you cannot imagine yourself without him or her. It is already painful just to think about if something will happen to him. So it would be a No for me about marrying again. It's not easy to say that you would feel the same way again.
I guess this is a question that you can only answer when you are in that situation. All happily married couple would have to say no.
2007-07-31 14:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by rhonags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope after 30 years of marriage I would NOT marry again. I married my best friend and the love of my life and that's that. I might date if the opportunity came up. (which it wouldn't lol) At my age guys are looking for a 30 year old. Or may be if they thought I had money they might ask me out.
Nope i know i wouldn't remarry.
2007-07-31 14:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by ????? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never say never.
It's so easy when we're NOT in a particular situation to swear up and down what we'd do if we were in it.
If I died, I wouldn't want my husband to be pining for me for the rest of his life. I'd hope that he could love someone again. There's a lot to be said for sharing your life with someone. Being alone in your old age doesn't sound fun. Having companionship and someone to laugh and hold hands with would be much more fulfilling.
This doesn't mean that you'd forget your other spouse. It simply means you still have more love to give another human being. Nothing wrong with that.
I've been married 9 years. How long after would I remarry? How on earth can someone answer that?
2007-07-31 14:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kellie at present I feel the same as you if my mate where to pass. But time has a way of somehow healing our broken hearts and who really knows what would really happen. We have discussed it and we both say that the other is irreplaceable. But I would not want to see my lady left lonely and alone for the remainder of her days so do hope that if I precede her to the grave that in time she does find someone else to share her life with. I would hope that she would grieve for perhaps a couple of years or so before seeing other people and feel certain that she would. But if she was to pass on before myself I know in my heart of hearts that there could never be anyone that could replace her, but there may well be someone with whom I would like to have as a companion after greiving her loss for a couple of years.
2007-07-31 14:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we've been married 29 years. I feel the same as you, about your second half being a friend, lover, special and someone who always makes me laugh. It would be too hard to marry again and accomplish what we have accomplished with each other. No, I wouldn't marry again, but I wouldn't sit around too much either. I would still like a man friend or two...lol
2007-07-31 14:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you never know how youre going to feel in a time of need. perhaps you find a shoulder to cry on and they become everything you ever wanted and more- maybe the two of you share the same experience of losing a spouse. you never know, so dont say never ever. You will never feel the exact same about two people, but we all are capable of a lot of love. dont let it go to waste(heaven forbid)if something does happen and you wind up widowed.
2007-07-31 14:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by southamptonkitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 06:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by lacue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋