i could be complicated or just the best person in the world.just why can't people change in general even if they are different?
2007-07-31 12:35:58 · 9 answers · asked by V 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
The only way people...anyone, can change, is if they really want to. You have to see that there is a problem to want to change it, the real problem is that people's ego usually stands in the way from them even seeing that there is a need for change. A good rule to live by...if you see something in someone else that you think they should change, look to yourself and see if that's maybe something YOU need to work on...
2007-07-31 12:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
realize that you are now creating the person you will be, you will change, grow, move forward, perhaps take a step back, all threw your life, go for small changes, small steps, think about how you want to be, then figure out the steps/ways that you feel will lead you to that, then try each day to do something to bring you closer to your goal, even if its just thinking about it, change doesnt happen in one swoop, or overnight, not sure what you mean by "even if they are different" you are suppose to be different, your individuality is what you bring to this world
2007-07-31 20:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by dlin333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply learn everything. The act of learning, especially from reading, changes the neural pathways in the brain. From there it is a trickle down effect.
2007-07-31 19:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by phil8656 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can i explain this to you people change only if its in their hearts or because they feel like they need or want or have too for any reason. you know the old saying people change at their own pace. the only thing that can change people is themselves or a higher power above.
2007-07-31 19:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you, yourself are the only person that can change you. and its your will only that will allow you to change. its your inner will to do what you want and if you want to be a different person, its your ambition to change.
hope this helps
2007-07-31 20:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by casey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to confront all your beliefs again and see if they fit to what u truly think is right. once u have done this u shall me a changed person.
2007-07-31 19:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by stickemd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can change, it's just a case of knowing how to.
2007-08-04 14:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by mary Huff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My own personal belief is that one can only change...... really, really, really change from deep within, thru Jesus Christ. Without him, it is just "containment."
2007-07-31 19:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we have a soul that gets shaped when we grow up and it determines who we are, we cant just change by freewill
2007-07-31 19:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋