I know lots of women do. Just want to hear if it ended up working out for them.
2007-07-31 10:38:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would never do it! I don't even have a boyfriend right now. Why do people always assume things?
2007-07-31 10:59:46 · update #1
yes and he said abort i didnt and he left,
did this with my sons dad and he stayed we have been together for 5 years
2007-07-31 10:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As if that would work!! this, in most cases, scares the lad away, why would he want to be with a loon that is daft enough to try and trap him with a baby. He will have rights, being the biological father, so would be able to see the child anyway without being with the mother, assuming he is fit enough to be a father, (not a drug user, pimp, etc)
I once told a lad i was pregnant to try to keep him, (I lied!) It didn't work anyway and we both moved on, 2 years later he rang me saying he wanted to see the baby lol. I never did tell him the truth, just that if it took him 2 years to show some interest he should think himself lucky that i don't want child support from him. He never contact me again. lol
2007-07-31 10:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Really, If it is going to be so long at least break it down into a few paragraphs. I tried really hard to read all the details but I still didn't see the part about the ultimatum. Anyway, If you love him so much you are not going to leave. I think he should file for visitation of the baby even if he needs to get a paternity test and even if he needs to let Jill's husband know of the affair. I think seeing his child is more important to him that protecting Jill. Otherwise, maybe he is lying.
2016-05-19 01:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never on purpose to keep a guy, I think thats the biggest mistake you can ever make. If you already know that the guy doesnt like you and you are just trying to figure out ways on how to keep him and you think pregnancy would be the best way, well let me tell that it isnt. It will probably end up in brake up and you will end up being a single mother and you end up losing.
2007-07-31 10:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by rorybellows 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Thats just sillyness getting pregnant to keep someone well it worked for my sister as they have a 2yr old and now a 2mth old but he stay with her for the baby. There relationship isnt good hasnt been since they had there first
2007-07-31 10:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Manaia's_mommy4eva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I chose not to risk bringing a baby into this world until I had a very committed husband.
It's not right for girls to use innocent baby's lives like that just to get something or someone they want.
2007-07-31 10:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by daisyk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the absolute worst way to have a relationship. Not good for the baby or the parents.
2007-07-31 10:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think this ever works. He may stay in the baby's life but is that all you deserve?
2007-07-31 10:41:36 · answer #8 · answered by cwrayvoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help but think of that poor child. Brought into this world and used as a bargining device. It honestly breaks my heart!
2007-07-31 10:45:01 · answer #9 · answered by Peanut Gallery 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Nope, why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you. I wouldn't want someone around who didn't want me.
2007-07-31 11:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by tealrose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋