A Little Help? Should my husband wait 3 days.?

Question

My last period was 7/21/07. The ovulation calender says i am fertile anywhere from the 4-8. I have a 28 -29 day cycle. so should I make him wait until Friday to have sex? I heard it makes his sperm count stronger? I really never notice any CM? Or should we start having sex every other day? I have been TTC for 7 months using an ovulation strip? However i have a disadvantage im 43 years old,my husband is 30 this is are 2nd marriage we both have kids from are 1st marriage.
I still have lots of hope. I know I need to see a fertility doctor however money is a little tight. I have started taking Vitex drops.Well any good ideas will be appreciated.
Thanks and God Bless To All.

Answer 1

I actually was in the Dr. office asking this question yesterday and got the "recipe" according to him. He said that we should obstain from sex for the 2nd week of your cycle which would be the week right after your pregnancy and then he said to start having sex then every other day.

I wish the best of luck!!

Answer 2

I would begin TTC every other day, 48 hours is plenty of time for your husband to recharge at 30 yrs old. Start now because you never know, you may ovulate early or late and dont stop til AF comes to visit again. Good Luck and LOADS of baby dust to you!

Answer 3

I would do the baby dance every other day. They say that's the best. Either way, make sure to have sex on ovulation day. Good luck!

Answer 4

if you are trying for a baby, have sex as much as possible before and during ovulation. I've read many articles on questions like these, and the dr.s say that it won't cause the sperm count to drop enough for it to matter... its more important to do the BD as many times during that time frame! good luck!

Answer 5

i have heard wait 2 days but no more than four days between sex cause after 4 days the sperm count goes down again

good luck to you and baby dust

Answer 6

Just have sex every other day. You could voulate early. And don't stop having sex after you think that you ovulated because you could ovulate later than expected.

Answer 7

My suggestion is try every other day, that is just a suggestion and I have no knowledge on this to base it.
I would like to wish you both a ton of luck, both my husband and I have been previously married and have children from our last marriages but are ttc together....good luck

Answer 8

Have sex, make babies. Dont sweat the logistics. Getting pregnant is pretty straight forward, a lot of the time (little more than half) its the stress of trying to MAKE yourself pregnant that makes it so impossible.

Ask any OB. Thats what I was told.

As long as you are ovulating still then you have nothing to worry about. However, because you are past your prime child bearing years, you might want to check with your OBGYN or other specialist about it.

Answer 9

I would say abstain until the first day of ovulation and then every other day after you are ovulating the sperm count doest increase with the days abstained.

Answer 10

he's performing thoroughly infantile which some adult males choose to do whilst their different halves are pregnant. you are the only that gets to handle being pregnant and childbirth, yet he has the nerve to act like his desires are so considerable. tell him how uncomfortable it makes you, and if he nonetheless pouts, in basic terms thoroughly forget approximately him. you are able to bypass forward & get him used to what that's going to be like after the infant is born. because of the fact once you have any unfastened time then, you would be wanting to sleep & no longer the rest a minimum of till the infant is sound asleep in the process the night.