Of course I know why some people have said as such- When people accuse me of being a race traitor, call me a cave *****, told me that I was stealing black men, and so on... I was/am aware that these statements were/are coming from the mouths of racists. It makes no sense that they would say such things and then accuse someone else of being racist. But that's what they do, and the fact is that they're the ones who are racist. I know this.
However, what I don't understand is why people would always tell me that I was being racist by only dating black men (rather than dating various races of men). How was I any different from white women who only date white men or black women who only date black men? I can't help who I'm attracted to. I've never been with a black man for racist reasons. So how in hell can someone think I'm racist?
2007-07-31 08:10:08 · 14 answers · asked by SINDY 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I'm probably racist simply because I dated black men and then married one? That makes absolutely no sense.
I've been with my husband for more than 13 years and have never once called him a N*gger in anger.
2007-07-31 08:19:11 · update #1
YOU get for real. There isn't a single person on this earth who I love and respect more than my husband, or even as much as my husband. The fact that you're accusing me of having such thoughts proves that YOU'RE a racist since your basing your opinion solely upon race.
2007-07-31 08:31:22 · update #2
Convince you? I'm just replying. Do you want the last word that damned bad? Fine. I'll give it to you... Post more nonsense and I won't reply. Have I made your day?
2007-07-31 08:41:54 · update #3
"What kind of men did you date after you got married?" LOL, funny man.
2007-07-31 08:43:23 · update #4
I REALLy appreciate your open mindedness. People are saying all that stuff about you because they are so damn stupid. You have the right to be with whomsoever you please and it's none of their fu**in business. Just ignore the hell out of them and live your life how you want it.
Real proud of you!
2007-07-31 11:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should focus on your marriage and leave the haters behind. people only say stuff like that, becuase they are jealous and they want what you have. by even asking this quesiton you are giving them the upper hand it doesn't matter. as long as you and your husband love each and want to be married to one another then there is no problem. just ignore those stupid people and don't worry about it. they are racist for even calling you a racist, becuase they aren't confortable w/ your relationship, becuase of your race so they are trying to make problems for the two of you, so you guys can eventually break up.
2007-07-31 09:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Nadine 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not racist my ***! Your post is full of racist and stereotypes. The ones who agree with you are either racists too or that that they didnt read the whole post. (If you are not attracted to black men, thats not racist) My best friend who is black is terrified of white women and he is not racist. I THINK YOU ARE A TROLL.
2016-05-19 00:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Racist" pretty much means "You suck" any more. If that's not true yet, it will be the way soon it's just being shouted at the drop of a hat. That's pretty much the message they have for you when they call you a racist for marrying outside of your race.
2007-07-31 08:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What kind of men did you date after you got married?
2007-07-31 08:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know all I have ever dated was white men and I'm called a sell out and a sl_t by black men and women.
2007-07-31 09:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ignore them...and Good luck with your marriage
2007-07-31 08:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jypcee 5000 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
They simply want to impose their own values on you. This goes on in all communities. You should have to understand where it is coming from in order to avoid anger or bitterness.
2007-07-31 08:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
I CARE BECAUSE
YOUR PROBABLY STILL A LITTLE RACIST DEEP DOWN, BECAUSE I CAN BET YOU WHEN YOUR HUSBAND PISS YOU OFF THE FIRST THING THAT COMES TO YOUR MOUTH IS THE N WORD,
AND WHO ARE YOU TRYING TO CONVINCE HERE, WE DON'T KNOW YOU SO DATE, MARRY, SCREW WHO EVER YOU WANT, THATS YOUR LIFE
YEA SURE, BUT I BET YOU THOUGHT OF THE N WORD, GET FOR REAL
SURE LADY, SEEMS TO ME YOUR TRYING A LITTLE TO HARD TO CONVINCE ME
YOUR STILL WRITING FUNNY LOOKING WOMEN
2007-07-31 08:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Ignorance and Jealousy maybe.
2007-07-31 09:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by reverendrichie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋