ok so i wanna know.. while having sex..
what are things you could say or do.. to make sure he stays inside you? any ideas? tips? ur experience -- stuff that you have tried and it worked?
i like it when he ejaculates inside me.. he usually just pulls out..
and we dont use condoms or anything.. i got pregnant before with him.. but we ended up having a misscarriage.. =(
plz no rude answers.. i just need some ways.
thanks
2007-07-31 07:35:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Sorry to hear about your miscarriage, I had one year and 1/2 ago :0( As far as your question, first don't you think you should be on the same page as far as getting pregnant? If your not trying to get pregnant and you just like the feeling, this is a good way to have a baby! I really think you should talk to him. If he thinks it's time to try again, then he'll ejaculate in you. Wish you luck, and best wishes!!
2007-07-31 07:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by That Girl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you dont say why he always pulls out before ejaculating. Does he do it because he thinks you want him to? Or is he trying not to get you pregnant?
Have you tried telling him you want him to stay inside and stop pulling out? Try this first!
Most guys would rather ejaculate in you than pull out, just ask him to.
Good luck.
Trish
2007-08-01 02:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that's what you want but ask is it what he wants because its easier to do inside for a lot of men. either way you may get pregnant as some semen may leak out without full ejaculation.
but be warned babies are hard work be sure the relation ship is strong and the expense is enormous so line the nest
its sad that the first was misscaried and i send my sympathy
2007-07-31 07:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by itschrisneyd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, firstly you need to educate him on pulling out. Pulling out does NOT prevent pregnancy. You could still get pregnant, so if hes doing it as birth control... he's very VERY wrong. Im figuring thats why he's doing it because otherwise guys like to finish inside.
Either he needs to use condoms or you need to get on the pill or both. He might feel more comfortable using a condom because then he still has control over the birth control method. Then he will feel safe enough to stay inside.
Also, you need to talk to him and work out a way to make him more comfortable. You cant force him to stay inside you or trick him. He will just end up resenting you. He will stay inside when he wants to but not because of anything you do.
If you feel like you absolutely have to trick him in some way, which is awful, riding him would be the only way. Go down on him, get him close, then climb on top and clench the kegels. But I think that would be manipulative and wrong.
2007-07-31 09:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by MonkeyMama 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
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2016-05-25 03:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm confused, if he wants a child as much as you do he will ejaculate inside you --you cannot "make him"
2007-07-31 07:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by A***n G 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
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A guy always cums fast when its their first time. and especially if he's been waiting for a long time. Guys are erect at least 5 times a day so what I would do is some foreplay until he ejaculates or the both of you for that matter its not fair that he has orgasms and you don't so get him to do you first and then once you finish he will be more than ready for his orgasm. then use a condom because that cuts down the sensations for him if he feels he is about to come prematurely then tell him to come out and do some more foreplay on you so he has time to calm down. the condom should work but if you want a baby tell him to take the condom of before ejaculation and then finish in you. the longer you wait to make him come with foreplay the quiker it will be because he has to get it out of him.
He also does need time because you are the only one he has been with so once he gets used to it, you can really enjoy it once he gets his techniques down pat. Tell him what you like. Get some books and videos also until you both are experienced. Or you could even have a quickie in the morning, when you get home and then at night. he will diffently last longer because his mind has been free twice already. You get on top of him and you control the situation. Also my boyfriend tells me that he thinks about none sexual things for a while to help control him, tell him to think about a sport or something that calms him. If that doesn't work then just do IT over until you are satisfied
2017-02-16 14:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-28 14:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you want to get pregnant? Just tell him not to pull out, but tell him when you are in the heat of the moment and you think it is about that time. Make it sound like that is what you want so you can have your needs satisfied.
2007-07-31 07:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way is if you hold him close to you, or ride him. But, if he doesn't want to ejaculate inside of you, he will pull out in time. Unless you "rape" him, that is about the only way.
2007-07-31 07:44:22 · answer #10 · answered by George P 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋