if my mom finds out im pregnant she will be soo mad but i don't want to have an abortion or anything and if i have it i want to keep it but i really am not ready for this! what should i do!!!!please help!!!!!!!!1
2007-07-31 06:16:11 · 21 answers · asked by topanga 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And you're also a lesbian. And you don't even know what an orgasm is. Poor little girl.
2007-07-31 09:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First take a pregnancy test and find out.I was 15 when I got pregnant and trust me it is not easy and yes it will change your life but you need to let your mom know if you are.She will be mad but it will pass.Everything comes out in the wash.My son is 14 now and I never regretted having him.My goals were put on hold for a while though but I went back and did them later.I did however finish highschool this is important because all jobs require at least high school diploma.This may be hard to do but it can be done.I went to school during day and worked evenings.I did not know back then but looking back I now know that yes 15 is way to young to be having sex.After having my son I did not have sex until I got married to a really great guy.11 yrs later we are still together.I could not have done it without my mom.
2007-07-31 07:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Linda101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you just need to calm down. My mother is the same way. My mother had me when she was 16. It was hard for her but she did it. She raised me into a great human being. You know sometimes life throws things at us that are not fair but that doesn't mean you should give up on the world. But first and for most you need to find out for sure take a pregnancy test and I know it can be scary but this something you need to do. If you are not then you need to look at other alternatives such as birth control if you are sexually active. And if you are well that will be the first responsibility of becoming an adult at a young age. you will be a mother but there is no reason to give up life. Things happen and sometimes we have to just stick with it. And telling your mom will be the hardest part but be honest and truthful will be the better outcome then her finding out on her own. explain your situation and how it happened. Good luck!!
2007-07-31 06:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, calm down. First of all, not to get in your buisness or anything, what are you thinking having sex at 15!?!?! Not to sound strict or anything, but there's plenty of time for that. Next time you go to your Ob-gyn, (if you don't have an appointment soon, schedule one) and ask her for a pregnancy test. Do what's right for you, and once you're sure you are, you can tell your mom, or your dad, someone you trust and you know will help you. But really consider, do you want to have a baby when you're 15? If you have goals, it might put them a little further out of reach. And if you aren't pregant, this will teach you not to have sex!!!! There's plenty of time for that!!! Good Luck! And have a nice day!!!!
2007-07-31 06:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 15 when i got pregent. It's a hard thing to go through alone,i advise you to tell a close relative to help you sit with
your mother and tell her. It will better sooner than later so you
get the prenatal care you need for your baby. My child is about to turn 20yrs old soon and i have never regreted having
him,but it will be hard work. Have a little faith.
2007-07-31 06:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh hon i wish i could hold u right now i can imagin how frightful this is but there is no one better than mom to go through this with. if u r not sur and taking the test is even frightful then u should tell her now that way if the test prove u not to b at least she will no that u r active and her advice would be most valuable so u won't have to revisit this same fright again!!!! her being mad is the least of your worries i think she will b mor hurt then mad i know i was....moms want the best for their off-spring it is our nature to protect those we love and you being her baby girl yes she will b hurt but her frist action would be to protect you the fact u bein a minor she has the right to kno cuz the responsibility would be hers so baby girl tell her and let her be mad, hurt, disapointed, even afraid but know this she will still love you and be there for you i hope this turn out to b just a dry run something that would bring you and your mom closer even stronger i hope it will make you both wiser with all that you could be from your action if i was your mom i rather you tell me you think u r pregnant then to have u tell me you think you have AIDS!!!!!! so remember it could always be worst.... your mom loves you TRUST THAT i will keep you in my heart and hope for the best much love and support to you and your mom
2007-07-31 07:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by NDAGO N A MESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sooner you tell her the better. I would be mad too, but more worried and concerned. She will help you. You can't do it without her. Don't wait any longer, just walk in the room and say it. If you want to make sure first, go to a free clinic like planned parenthood. They will give you a confidential free pregnancy test and advice.
2007-07-31 06:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by lifeisgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, tell your mom. sure she's going to be mad, but she's going to be even more angry the longer you wait to tell her. you may be surprised at her reaction. she could just be very dissapointed....
as far as keeping it....that may or may not be a good idea. think what is best for the child. adoption is always an option. do an adoption where you could go see the child and recieve pictures and stuff like that.
2007-07-31 17:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing you need to do is actually find out if you are pregnant or not. there is no point stressin over nothing. so go by yourself a pregnancy test. if it turns out you are pregnant you need to tell your mom about it so she can help you decide what to do next. i mean she will eventually find out so you mite as well tell her sooner rather then later. especialli since you are a minor and are going to need her help if you have the baby.
2007-07-31 10:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by Kandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she will be mad at first but she will get over it trus me i was 15 too and it was really hard if you only what i went thru to kep her and now my mom is so sorry for ever being mad good luck take a test first before you tell her anything
2007-07-31 06:23:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMGosh i m almost crying. i dont think i can stand it. ive answered 3 young girls just now that are in a huge mess. im so happy that u will not consider killing the baby, but this HAS TO teach you to never screw aroung till you are married and want a child. really. obviously you need to tell your mom, you cant get away from that. i hope your bf will support you now, but please dont do it again till youre married ans r planning to have kids
love and prayers
good luck :(
2007-07-31 15:51:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋