I had gone into a chatroom about 2 months ago and began talking with this "boy" named keith who said he was 16. which is 3 years older than I am, but I have friends who are 16 so I didn't think anything of it.
I had been contacting him since then, and we were talking and I really liked him a lot, he was sweet, and listened to my problems, and he cared about me. I'm going through a hard time right now with me family, and he was so nice, I always enjoyed talking to him.
he made a slip-up and told me that he has a job at UPS...I researched it and apparently you have to be 18 to apply. I confronted him about this and he admitted that he was 19. It turns out that he had been having sexual fantasies about me, so I severed all communication between us.
but now I'm so sad, and I can't stop crying. please, someone just tell me it was the right thing to do.
I am so scared he might have hurt me.
2007-07-31 06:10:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You most definitely did the right thing!! I understand you are hurting just don't cave and get back in touch with him. Unless it is a family friend a 19 yr old has no business starting a friendship with a13 yr old and even then only a casual friendship. You hear stories about girls getting hurt all the time from situations like this. Don't dwell on what you have done, just go on and learn from your mistake and don't let it happen again, I do not think chat rooms are very safe and am very glad that nothing happened to you.
I just wanted to add that if you did give him any personal information you need to be honest and tell your parents, your safety is more important than either of you getting in trouble and he is the only wrong person in this situation.
2007-07-31 06:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Coffee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh hunni, you did the best thing a girl can do. you dropped the relationship before anything ever started! He could have gotten your age, address, school, phone number, and he could have come there and done horrible things to you. that is the thing about chat rooms, you never know when a person is lying to you. A 21 year old man who is a child molester could say he was a 13 year old boy with long blonde hair who has only had oen kiss in his entire life. thats why i dont go to chat rooms. hey im 13 too. you did the absolute right thing, no need to cry. you were very smart in what you did. i hope everything turns out to be ok for u. :]
2007-07-31 06:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did such a good job. This is why a lot of parents don't like their kids to be on chat rooms. You did the right thing. No offense but next time try to confide in a friend or find a girl who will listen to you. If you need to talk click on my name and send me an email or im. I'm a good listener and have also gone through the family problem thing.
2007-07-31 06:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Paige R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definitely did the right thing, you need to be very careful in chat rooms, no matter how old you are, a lot of people lie and some are just crazy and stalk people.
It's all over the news, someone should have reported that person, he is not a minor and should not be leading you on, he should know better.
Your a smart young woman for thinking of checking up on his story, I hope you did not give him any personal information that would enable him to find you.
He is the one that is and was in the wrong not you, you did the right thing!
2007-07-31 06:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May i ask how old you are? What you did was the right thing to do. I think this fellow was alot older than her was telling you and I am very proud of you to sever communication with him, if I was you I would change my email so he couldn't reach you he could be a grown man and hurt you! I know it hurt's but you will find friends that will love you. Please don't get involved in him again!
2007-07-31 06:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by katiedaling 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you did was the right thing. you had formed an emotional relationship with him and now it is hard for you to let go of the ties you made. trust me if he lied about that then he has probably lied about everything you two discussed. you have a lot of living to do and there will be many young men in your life....guys your own age. stop crying over someone who never really existed. please just keep your decision and move on with your life.
2007-07-31 06:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by jazzy l 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on, do no longer stay in worry. fairly while there is not any longer something to worry. technology has ALREADY shown this 2012 theory to be incorrect. human beings have envisioned the international to end in 2000, besides as 1997 i think. Now 2012? Yeah, suitable. human beings basically wanna scare others to get interest. with the help of ways, the action picture 2012 sucked.
2016-11-10 19:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. I'm proud of you.
There are alot of wierdos on the internet. He sounds like a sexual predator (and most liekly was much older than 18!) He might have hurt you, BUT HE DIDN'T. You are okay.
2007-07-31 06:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was definitly the right thing to do! He lied to you and he wanted to have sex with you. he is 6 years older. It is ok i feel ur pain i went out with! a guy who told me he was 15 and then it turns out he was 17! omg i was so mad and i really liked him but then i found out when he was applying for college. You will get over him and you made the right decision. Also it gives you and excuse to do chocolate therapy!
2007-07-31 06:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did they right thing! I'm proud of you! that boy was definitely up to no good and a liar. he may have hurt you, but honey trust me, there is someone who is out there who is a lot better than him and that guy for you will treat you like no other! : ) so forget this guy and enjoy your life w/o him!
2007-07-31 06:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Charnelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋