i was over @ my dads house meeting 1 of his friends & his friend had sons. 1 was 6, the other 13 or 14. the 13/14 year old was totally hitting on me, but i'm an absolute horrible flirt & i've never had a b-friend. i also don't want 2 start going out w/ him b/c i barely know him. (even tho he is pretty good looking) i am totally freaking out right now!!!!! help plz!!!!
2007-07-31 04:56:43 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i sort of DO want 2 date him tho
2007-07-31 05:03:38 · update #1
oooh omg go 4 it...get 2 knw him by talking 2 him and doin things 2 gether...then wen u guys are in the moment kiss him
2007-07-31 05:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If I were you I would stay clear of boys altogether. focus on school. I know that seems hard at this point in your life. It also may seem uncool, but once you get into the real world It will be the complete opposite. If you do good in school you will have a good career. which will lead to lots of money. which means if you ever get married and have kids you can enjoy your life instead of being stressed about bills and all the mistakes you made with men. because all the good men want to be with good woman. that means taking care of yourself and focusing on things you need instead of want. If you do decide to get a boyfriend make sure you like him and you know what kind of person he is first.good luck
2007-07-31 12:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... that's a tough one, if he REALLY likes you, (which is what you would hope for in a relationship) he shouldn't care if you're a good flirt or not. Ask your dad about him, just hint... say something like "Hey dad, what's the deal with your friends son (insert name)?" He should give you some info without any speculation! Good Luck, have a nice day!
2007-07-31 13:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is jus my opinion, but i think you should get to know him before you even think about dating, cuz some guys may look good on the outside and have the right words, but their motives may not be so good and they may hurt you in the long run, so jus really get to know him and see what he's like before you get into any trouble. and also, for future reference, its really bad to get yourself involved with someone just because he was giving you "the eye". even though it may be tempting, think about it first.
and please dont freak out. BREATHE!
2007-07-31 12:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by starlite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so if you dont want to date him....why freak? Just tell him you dont want to date and you fell uncofortable with him flirting with you. that or if you do actualy like him start to date him.
Ither way...nothing to freak over. just breath.
2007-07-31 12:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by robertt223 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ur his age u should get to know him better before moving on too quickly, its a good thing that u like someone but u need to take it slow
2007-07-31 13:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by topanga 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
act like he is one of the girls u dont have to flirt . just use a normal conversation. if it goes somewhere take if from there
2007-07-31 12:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by hip-notizin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're freaking out? grab a paper bag and breath
2007-07-31 12:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Black Meowth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you do not want to date him why are you asking this question, if you don't want to then don't answer is so simple.
2007-07-31 12:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you aren't interested in him, works for me every time.
2007-07-31 12:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋