How are you going to make it up to them if you ever could?
2007-07-31 03:17:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Owe them a sincere apology and take them to lunch.
2007-07-31 03:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason we were told "do not judge others." It kind of means we may not know all the facts and end up in a bad situation.
Just be very frank. Tell the person you have finally LEARNED your lesson (if you have:) And that you're tired of being in this "accusing" mode all the time, which is NOT fun.
If insecurity made you accuse someone of cheating..the problem lies with you too, not just that person. Why are you insecure? Regardless of the other person, you should be an adult, taking care of yourself and not letting yourself slip and become emotionally dependent on ANYONE! Even if someone does cheat on you, IMO, since they're a human being prone to err, they still deserve a chance if they're sorry and trully want to make it up to you.
2007-07-31 03:25:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you may never be able to make it right. I am assuming this has something to do with a relationship. Whatever the case may be you lost trust in someone and then you found out that it wasn't justified and now you are wondering what to do about it. I am sure you know that apologizing is the first step and then you probably will have some major butt kissing to do for some time. If you really care for this person then you should have no problem doing what's right. Good Luck.
2007-07-31 03:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Dah veed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could only apologise . I thought someone had done something and wanted him punished in the most severe way but then I found he was Innocent I defended him to the ones who still spoke of him as if he was guilty. You could always tell him you were wrong and how sorry you were or if it is serious alligations you could put a retraction in the local paper personal column
2007-07-31 03:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember there are two sides to every story and never assume things in the future. In the mean time apologise profusely, tell that someone how wrong you were and ask them how can you make it up to them. At least you have recognised that you were in the wrong, if the someone is a true friend then they will accept your apology.
2007-07-31 03:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by sara d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think about the amount of times i have been wrong, and an apology really does not cut it...it's the hardest thing to be slaughtered for something you have not done...that's why i don't judge before i have all the facts first... it's the worst mistake to ever make.
2007-07-31 05:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flat out tell them you messed up. Let them know how sorry you are and hope that they can recover. From then on it is out of your hands. I would just work on making sure you know all the facts before you go accusing people of stuff.
2007-07-31 03:21:05 · answer #7 · answered by brunette 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is "man up" and admit you were wrong, and ask the person's forgiveness. It takes a big person to admit a mistake, and I think that shows the person that you are sincerely sorry for falsely accusing them.
2007-07-31 03:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Christie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Someone has done that to me, i had to argue with them till they saw my side of the story. But they didn't apologize.
Usually i do that to other people,i am usually stunted that what i originally thought was wrong.
I like to apology, and quietly and easy away !
2007-07-31 03:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Moanika 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to grow up.
Look them in the eye and tell them it was YOUR issue and that you are sorry and that because you recognize it was your problem you will work to try and better yourself and not do it again.
2007-07-31 03:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋