i have the connection. but i have a practice
www.dancemeditation.org
that keeps me 'in' my body. feels great.
i love being in my body.
2007-07-31 02:45:38
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answer #1
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answered by Sufi 7
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I retired from relationships for 9 years deliberately and didn't feel any sensuality or anything. I was totally neutral. After that I started dating again and it all came back. I think if you apply nice body lotions every morning that you got for your birthday especially chocolate and toffee scented ones, and/or perfume (that St Michel cologne is $17 a litre so if you haven't got Chanel No. 5, no matter), and wear beautiful undies no matter how heavy your winter clothing is, you will feel sensual. They have lovely underwear in the cheapest department stores too. Browsing in beautiful dress and homewares shops makes me feel sensual. I feel sensual with layered longer hair rather than shorter. And when you put it up you can use some glittery clips. Dressing up at night, just adding a tiny cocktail hat attracts attention and comments. Waiters and bartenders always seem to be very handsome and good to flirt with. Red lipstick always attracts attention but you have to keep checking it to make sure it is not smudged. Unfortunately there is a big difference between an expensive lipstick and a cheaper one. Just try buying a fifty dolllar lipstick and putting it on carefully and go down the street. You will get two people per block, commenting and asking you where you got it. A beautiful mobile phone and handbag are like pets, to be stroked and handled in public. When eating an icecream sundae with bananas, topping, nuts and cherries, don't forget to groan occasionally. When I eat alone in a cafe, I spread out on a large table and don't go in peak hour. All my possessions around me like I feel right at home. I feel that the world is my home and I could just exist in it with my car, mobile and handbag, but then I remember I need to shower and sleep and I go home. But if I am near a friend's place I can just doss down there with them and their tv and fire and chat. Doing some physical hobby makes you feel sensual, like walking, aerobics, tap dancing, tai chi etc. If you keep your body in good condition, when you are running up steps in clothing that is not a track suit, you feel really good to know you can do that while everyone else is clinging to the handrail.
If I go to a restaurant with someone else I still spread out on a table meant for 6 as though we are there for the day and my friend puts his helmet and gloves, leather satchel and leather jacket all over the chairs and table too. I say to him IS YOUR BUMCRACK SHOWING, COS THOSE WAITRESSES ARE HOVERING BEHIND YOU? And he goes I HOPE NOT!! and laughs. Nice white flowingVictoriana heavy cotton nighties with shirring and tucks, are so sensual compared with those black nylon numbers with scratchy lace. A scented candle on at night will neutralise farts.
2007-07-31 10:41:16
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answered by wemblania 6
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