is not showing too much love sometimes a form of loving as well to a loved one?

Answer 1

I think so. I'm not overly lovey (don't know if that's a word) with my loved ones but they know that I do love them. Don't smother people it will get annoying I think.

Answer 2

Hmm...I agree. Although I wouldn't write a song for someone I loved, I'd either write them a soppy poem, or make one of those crappy cds with collections of lovey-dovey songs on. Lol? I think music is a much easier way of expressing emotion than painting, simply because music allows you to express yourself in a way which no-one else can have control over. No-one can tell you what to do with music; there are no rules. Also, hearing the words 'I love you' with a few chords in the background goes a lot further than just writing 'I love you'. Music has the passion and energy, which other art forms can't show as well. It could be the most hardcore punk-rock to the most emotional ballad- music has that 'kick'. Lol, I'm finding it hard to express myself as well. Perhaps, I should write a song about it :P Song or painting: I wouldn't mind. As long as they show their effort, and how much they care, it wouldn't really matter. BQ: Hell no. I might not have a girlfriend (hey- I'm only a teen lol), but I need to fantasise :P

Answer 3

some of the things we fall into in a relationship is that we feel comfortable (too lazy or busy to continue building it), or we take things for granted (in assuming they will be there no matter how we treat the other person). So genuine love if not handled with fuzzy soft gloves and attention when you're dating falls into one of the above two categories. You need to build from the start, and then understanding comes (between the two parties) later.

It takes mature love to learn to tolerate each other's quirks (so to speak) and learning that each person has their own life to lead and then they come together to love.

I can tell you from experience that a marriage is difficult in that even the best of couples "make love" rarely, and in a daily routine they are lucky to sit down and talk with each other 15 minutes a day, and that's why trust needs to be strong in a marriage. A mature married couple will know that they are working together on the same goals. The thing is first to find a mate in which their goals are your goals, and then to marry and work toward those goals together.

Answer 4

Hmm… interesting question…

I must admit I hesitated in answer this question at first because I felt that my answer was somewhat too complex and convoluted to be able to portray properly. However my heart compels me to at least try, so here goes. You asked, “Is not showing too much love sometimes a form of loving as well to a loved one”? Well, for me, I would argue that in fact it IS a form of showing love. The key word I focused on in your question there was the word “too much” and therein lies my dilemma. For what is considered too much? If the love is mutual and real I would say that there is no such thing as showing “too much” love when it comes to your for anoher.

Love is unparalleled and when two people are truly in love – not to be confused with simply attracted to one another or infatuated by the other- by honestly and truly in love, it is a thing of awe-inspiring magnitude. It would almost be as if you asked, “Is loving someone the minimal amount possible the same as loving them whole lot?” To me, that does not exist. Love is either real, alive and true in a relationship or not there at all. Now of course you can love and not be extreme with it, such as love your neighbor, but when it comes to love of the heart with someone you really care about, that love runs deep and is amazingly powerful. Also when you say, “Is not showing too much love sometimes a form of loving as well to a loved one,” I think not. I already explained my complex view on the phrasing “too much love,” also as far as the rest of your question goes, even if you were to omit the “too much” part it would be hard for me to accept.

“Is not showing love sometimes a form of loving as well to a loved one?” How can one love and not be able to show it? How would the other person know? If you love someone, no matter if you are not flooding them with roses everyday they should still know from your actions, words, and behaviors. So while I feel there is no such thing as a limit to love, there will always be something you do that shows the person you love them. Ha Ha! Wow…sorry for the long answer, but I told you it was a difficult explanation. Great question! Cheers!

Answer 5

There is no definite answers to this one. There is no way we can show how much love we have for a person in the form of display. On the other hand , I think it is a form of loving ourself. Its to protect ourself. The deeper we fall, the harder it is to climb out. It is never too much to love somebody but we tend to love the wrong way. We always tend to own a person whom we love too deeply to the extend of suffocating her. Calling her every time shes not in to find out where she goes to and with whom. Each time we need to talk to someone, we call her. Thats not a form of love they would enjoy receiving. We all need breathing space. Its healthy to make people miss us then to cling on to just one person every waking hour. Thats an obsession and is bad for us. We will be on the losing end. Showing too much love will be tantamount to that too. When it becomes a way of life, she will expect it every moment and it if suddenly stops, she will be suspicious. Show your love to a certain extend and keep it for special occasions.

Answer 6

Yes as i had said earlier. every relationship has a fixed quota of energy to be used. So it is upto both the partners that how to be used and when....... so if you need to miss and not show much love is also a form of love.

Answer 7

Showing love ?
Give = Take
This is the formula, for showing love, give as much as you take ! You will have a clean relationship.

Answer 8

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh love.

I Cr 13;8a

Answer 9

I think guys get that way they think (because i'm here she must know i love her right??? WRONG
women need to be fussed over & made to feel special forever!!
you fuss over a car & fix it & treat it special well put your lady higher than a car so to speak :)

Answer 10

I am not overly lovey either, but when I show it, it is sincere. Some people will smother you & compliment you all the time, but you start to wonder if it is sincere