i said the following words to the man i love:
*if i walk out of this club now, you will not ever see me again!*
what do you think. any chance we will ever be together? story is: we dated more than for one year. had lots of fun. laughed, talked, appreciated each other. he liked me. i loved him. still do. he never liked to talk too much about feelings. but he asked me to move in with him.. and he would even change his ways for me. explanation: he is dating lots lots lots of girls. laughing about his success. not taking nothing serious. i think that he did love me. but not enough to stop his ways. he intentionally made me jealous. kissed a girl in front of me. then kissing me.. walking over to her and kissing her.. i kept cool until i exploded and my heart froze. i walked over and told him what a jerk he is and that it is over finally. he said nothing. just tried to hold me
what are the chances? yes. i still love him. but don't know if it is worth it- or if i will regret forever
2007-07-31 00:34:16 · 7 answers · asked by india18 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
not give him a chance. i never had a real talk with him. we never talked about us seriously. i never told him how much i love him. since he must have dozens of girls telling him just this. but i do.. plus, i never gave him a real chance, as i blocked any such comments like *moving in with him* or *i could change for you!* i was unable, since i knew about his flirty and cheaty ways! he did not hide. i'm so sad sometimes
2007-07-31 00:45:20 · update #1
You are living in the wrong age, my dear, this type of emotions are non-existant any more. The man you are looking for doesnt deserve your kind of person, you deserve a person who is capable of deep emotions like you, I would tell you this example, bear it in mind. God made one perfect man for every woman or you can say one perfect woman for every man, but!! he doesnt tell him or her which one is that. He might move about right in front of you but you might never know it, that is the irony of fate.
2007-07-31 01:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by A VERY ORDINARY MAN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he likes you as much as you like him but he feels insecure about you 4 him. I say have a straight conversation with him whereby you level out. Let me tell you this it's hard to change a cheating habit if it already exists even if he likes you a lot. But if he likes you a lot he will stop the other girls.(full stop)
2007-07-31 08:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cube 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men are commitment phobic, especially those who have fragile egos and are insecure. Sounds like your ex fits that description. He constantly has to have a stable of girls to remind him what a great person, lover, bf etc. that he is. It may hurt for awhile, but move on. He will never be faithful to you, or to anyone else.
2007-07-31 07:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you're every JERK'S dream girl!
You're with this guy because?
And basically your self esteem rated somewhere below the last Third Eye Blind Album release!
2007-07-31 07:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Davis Wylde 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u said that, so u must stick to ur word but it;s doubtful he will come seeking u i think he is enjoying himself to much, to make a comitment to any one woman at the mo
2007-07-31 07:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by spoogie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear, didn't you get my letter. It got lost I guess. Try this.
2007-07-31 10:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the relationship time...........if it was true love, he'll come to you no matter what happens............what you did is right, there's no reason for you to regret. if he truly loves you, he'll come to you........but let him make the first move.
2007-07-31 07:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by liza 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋