i said the following words to the man i love (as he broke my heart by his behaviour):
*if i walk out of this place now, you will not ever see me again!*
what do you think. any chance we will ever be together-? story is, we dated more than for one year. had lots of fun. laughed, talked, appreciated each other. he liked me. love i don't know. falling in love yes :) he asked to move in with him! and he could change his ways for me... wow. but circumstances for a real relationship were on both sides bad. plus he has got lots lots lots of girls. he is a player. a guy dating lots of girls at same time. so i found out. i think that he did love me. but not enough to stop his ways. he intentionally made me jealous. kissed a girl in front of me. kissing me.. walking over to her and kissing her.. i kept cool until i exploded and my heart froze. i walked over and told him what a jerk he is and that it is over finally. he said nothing. just tried to hold me
what are the chances? i still love him
2007-07-31 00:28:15 · 4 answers · asked by india18 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
well, his behavior is really confusing, and the thing about kissing another girl in front of you is, well, quite depressing, and making me want to punch him in the face. what do you feel? if you love him enough, i think you should both talk, seriously and sincerely. lay out all the problems that's hindering your relationship from growing and developing. sometimes, the actions of people is not what they really think or feel. maybe he's afraid of commitment as much as he loves you. maybe he's torn between loving you and afraid of making a real comittment. the most essential part of every relationship is open-communication. chances are, he really feels something more than likeness for you, considering that he's asked you to move in with him and changing his ways, although he failed by the looks of it. a little push, i think is all you need to make him admit or see that he loves you and if he's not in love with you ENOUGH, he can lose you forever. i hope the best for you, your story is kinda like what i had with my ex. goodluck to you and god bless the both of you. i truly believe that people who's really in love with each other finds it in their hearts to be with each other, no matter what the fears or challenges that lay ahead. =)
i quotes this from my friends sms, and just think it over:
"if you are not sure of where you stand in someone's life, it's best to leave things behind so that if they drop you off, it will be easier to forget them. don't waste time waiting for nothing; when efforts are not recognized, it's just best to give things up. you've done your part, let them do theirs."
"it's hard to wait around for something that you know might never happen, but it's even harder to give up, when you know it's everything you want."
"2 things in life you have to make a mental note of:
never make any promises when you're happy,
and don't make any decisions when you're angry."
2007-07-31 00:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by the lioness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we understand emotions we're not emotionally dependent and then ironically we are fit for a mature relationship, mature/knowledgeable about emotions, independent and ready for interdependence with a more together person. Many sexaholics end up giving up sex entirely in the end, but do you want to wait for the end and do you want to give up sex? For that matter do you want aids or fatherless children with aids or the disease de jour? That seems like masochism. Psychology helps with life in general and puts you ahead instead of behind and can open a whole new beautiful vista. Here's some freebies. I found one thought that was a real eye opener for me in lesson three, imagining being someone you admire, how they walk, how they talk, move and all the details. Wow. It feels so nice.
2007-07-31 08:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sad he would do that to you, he sounds like a jerk to be honest, Any man who would kiss another girl right in front of you is horribly mean. Maybe he gets off on hurting you, you don't deserve that. Find someone who is willing to love you and only you. Not just any woman that walks by. But if you do get back with him be careful, sounds like a guy who sleeps around alot. It'd be a shame for you to get some nasty disease from a asshole like that. Good luck.
2007-07-31 07:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to love yourself! If you did love you self, you wouldn't even think twice about a man like this.
Move on. Speed some time with yourself. Learn to love yourself. Grow as a person. When the time is right the man of your dreams will come along and you will be ready for him.
If you fail to grow the Man of your dreams will simply walk by because he loves himself!
2007-07-31 07:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋