My bestfriend and I started a relationship with each other a few weeks ago and for both of us it is a first to be in a same sex relationship. It's new and we both r very happy.The thing is I am also very attracted to pre op transexual women. Does this mean I want the best of both worlds coz sometimes I feel guilty about how I feel.
2007-07-30 23:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by Garf_187 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're just expanding your world. Don't get caught up with I like this person or that. It will work out. Don't worry so much. If this is your first sexual relationship with the same sex, I'm sure your mind is full of all kinds of feelings. Relax, just go with the flow. Don't hurt your friend. Time will tell how things turn out. Just enjoy what you have now and don't try to figure out the rest of your life today. One day at a time...
2007-07-31 01:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Niki Linde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound contradictory...
but the guilty u feel is not about the attraction to the pre op transsexual women, is about that u feel like cheating ur new gf...
try it this way, tell her the truth, remember truth is the only way for a relationship to survive till end... if she really love you, she will with you together, figure out the solution...
btw, u shud share all ur problem with ur another half, remember put her in the 1st place for anything, this will make ur relationship better than ever.
hope it help, cheer~
2007-07-31 13:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kordal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you asked almost the same question a month ago (and I answered that one too).
If you're lesbian, then you're attracted to women (I think we can all agree on that ;)). A transsexual woman is a woman; so it's not surprising that a lesbian might find her attractive. If she is also lesbian, a relationship might well develop (if she's straight, of course, you're wasting your time)
But you've just started a relationship;concentrate on that, and stop 'window-shopping'. It's not fair on your new partner to start lusting after other women so soon.
2007-07-31 09:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate your energy on this new relationship. now youhave made a commitment to someone, thoughts of who else your attracted to should be pushed aside.
I have reported the two women who chose to verbally abuse this person, just for asking a question.
If your happy and settled and its just a fantasy, let it be what it is, a fantasy. If your thinking of acting on any other attraction, let your currnet relationship go.
Congrats for having the courage for following you heart!
2007-07-31 07:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i don't think so your just attracted to to the male aspect of women..their male characteristics at least u know what u like..be happy attraction comes in many forms..in your case u just like certain pre op trans hell go with the flow and enjoy it..peace~
2007-07-31 07:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one should not feel guilty about who they are attracted to, try to focus on your relationship
2007-07-31 07:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are who you are dont listen to these people making rude comments we all are different and ohnestly you can like as many different types of people as you like take care
2007-07-31 06:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah .___GOOD QUESTION ..........But I can"T Reply.........!
2007-07-31 07:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♫♥♦ND♦♥♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋