I'm 8 weeks pregnant and I feel so Horne???!!! Can’t ask my husband for sex I think me being pregnant has put him off sex completely... pls advice me how can I cool down a bit!!
2007-07-30 22:58:05 · 6 answers · asked by M P 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
most men find that when their partner is pregnant theyre that much sexier...hes probably just afraid hes gonna hurt the baby...which he really really wont and its very normal to feel like that but the best thing i can suggest is talk to your husband and make sure he knows its safe to have sex - oh and dont use a vibrator it messes with the baby's heart rhythm
2007-07-30 23:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always had the urge to do naughty things to my husband that only he would reap the benefits from if you catch my drift!Lol!
My hubby on the other hand felt really strange having sex with me because, and this is true, he thought that he was going to hurt the baby. When my midwife came around for a checkup I told her what was going on (she and I were very close) and she set him straight and told him shut up to f&*$ me (her words!)and it was better after that! Very cool midwife!
If you need to relieve some of your own 'pressure' then do it yourself and if you're husband sees that I can nearly guarantee you he will want to join in!
Some men feel weird when their wife gets pregnant. It does change your relationship but overtime he will get used to it. My advice would be to try not to be" all about the baby" when you are together. you're husband and wife before you are parents and he needs that relationship to stay the same.
Good luck with the pregnancy and i hope you can find a way to cool down!
2007-07-30 23:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy; mum to 3 monkeys! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 8 weeks pregnant and your husband won't have sex???? You are not even showing yet!!! My goodness! I hope he doesn't continue to not be with you for the next 8 months....you have a long road ahead!
I think it is normal to feel horney. Your hormones are changing. Nothing wrong with sex during pregnancy.
Maybe your husband needs to be reasured of that...maybe if he hears it from your doctor, he will relax.
2007-07-30 23:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Author Al 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal. Dont ask him for sex just jump him. Most guys are more worried about pressuring you into sex than anything so if you show him you are eager he might come round.
2007-08-03 19:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally. I know what that's like.
Relieve yourself, with yourself, or get hubby in the mood.
Believe me, a lot of men enjoy pregnant ladies ;)
2007-07-30 23:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First try talking to him about it. then take it from there. you have to talk to your husband about these things. believe me.. i know what you are going through. im pregnant right now too. i hope my advice helps.
2007-07-30 23:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Latasha K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋