it happens all the time?

Question

why do i have this day dream all the time...i'm stuck up with my imagination..the dreams that i wish could happen to me...getting to travel.. to work abroad.. to have one nice bf..to do my masters... its all something i wish i can do but its hard to happen cause im not rich.. i work hard but all my salary are used for supporting my family..

the day dreams are too much that sometimes it endup hurting me..--> wheni realise that it can never happen..
do you also have so much day dreams??

sometimes it makes me feel really good...

is it normal to have so much day dreams?

Answer 1

Well, you can rest assured that you're normal.

Here's a few pointers: try to pretend that you
earn 25 dollars less each week and stash that money away or put it aside and place it into a bank account. This will leave you with
1300 dollars in a year's time. Remember,
this money does not exist no matter what comes up.

Also, you would have to live on a better budget plan...which means: you would have to make some sacrifices for now in order to reach your future goals. Bear in mind, the majority
of people who have gotten wealthy have done so by making sacrifices (going without
certain things which aren't an absolute necessity) to enable themselves to achieve
successfulness. It's a planned endeavor, not a coincidence.

Think of daydreaming as a way to escape
a reality which you no longer desire to remain trapped inside of, and in turn, motivate you
to install an ambition and game plan by showing you a way out. But don't expect this to suddenly happen overnight, you have to possess patience and tolerance.

Every body has a dream, they're necessary.
For without them we would simply give up hope.

Our imaginations keep us alive and from losing our sanities.

Give it a few years; continue to daydream
because each day and every dream only
brings you that much closer to realizing them. To actualizing them. And don't allow
nothing and no one to stand in your way and impede your lifetime goals.

God bless you and best of luck to you on your new voyages in life.
Love, peace and happiness.

Answer 2

Daydreams, or dreams for our lives, are part of daily life for most of us. The dreams aren't what hurt us, but the negativity you express toward your ability to accomplish them will hurt you. So, where does the negativity come from? Surprisingly, not from your situation. The fear of the responsibility of success is usually at the heart of things. Especially in a situation such as you report.

Even when you are contributing to your family, and I commend you for sharing your earnings and time with them, you can save for the things in your dreams. Decide what you want to do first. Might that be a cruise, or vacation abroad? Research where you want to go. Find out what it costs to go there now. Then save up for it, and go! You don't have to give your family everything they want. Would getting your masters degree be next? Go do it. Student loans will be a big help, you don't have to pay all your tuition yourself. And while getting your masters you can get fellowships, as well. Just march forward with your goals.

As for a good boyfriend, men are attracted to women who are positive and reaching their goals. That will come to pass as well. Make your plan, start working toward your goal, if your family still need contributions from you, you will be able to do more for them after your have your masters degree.