i care about him and i want to give him pleasure even if i dont get any pleasure secondly can i get any STD.
2007-07-30 20:09:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you are gay.
2007-07-30 20:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
OK i have read all the other answers and feel that most are trying to tell you your gay but the fact is there are gays bi sexual and straight men, then there is the curious one like yourself. me i am bi sexual and have no problem saying so, so i say allow yourself the chance to see if it is something you can handle and yes if you do get the pleasure you say you wont enjoy it but it does not mean your gay. also most men get aroused by both sexes but they don't admit it honestly.
as far as an std you can get any one of then from sexual pleasure but play it safe and use a condom when you allow or when you and your male friend try it this way there is no doubt
2007-08-02 04:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by chapster919 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to give you a ******* then the best way to give him pleasure is by letting him blow you.
It is not impossible to get an STD (particularly gonorrhea) from getting a ******* -- but it is very difficult (possibly impossible but no one is sure) to get HIV from getting a *******. Additionally, he would have to HAVE an STD to give it to you. If you are both young, and he hasn't been running around -- where would he have gotten it?
If you trust him and want to have him do it, let him.
Kind thoughts,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
PS And please ignore stupid people who confuse acts with preference. It does NOT make you bi or gay to let him blow you as much as you both want. I used to blow some of my striaght friends alot in H/S and college, they loved me doing it and I loved doing it. I had one friend who would drop his pants the moment we were alone and he always had a hard on if he knew it might happen -- guess what, they are still straight, I am still gay, no one is bi -- and we all were really happy about the situation. You don't turn gay because you have sex with another guy.
2007-07-31 01:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many men indulge in sex with other men and do not regard themselves as being gay and they are not. Humans are sexual beings and if there were not so many taboos imposed by religions, many more men would be having occasional sex with other men without feeling compromised or guilty. Enjoy yourself. Believe me, if he gives you a bj you will get pleasure from it.
It is extremely unlikely that you will get an STD from him giving you a bj. You could get herpes if he has a cold sore on his mouth. If he hasn't, you have no worries. Lie back and have fun. You never know, you might like it so much you might want to reciprocate - and that won't make you gay either.
2007-07-30 20:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by tentofield 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you go thru with this you will have to look upon yourself as at least bi-sexual. Having sex with a guy in any manner, shape, or form is a homosexual act, period.
As for your not receiving any pleasure, get real, my friend. If you orgasm, you are by definitiion receiving pleasure. Be honest with yourself about this. And, do not put yourself down for sharing yourself with your friend...it's okay.
As for any STD's...if you friend has any lesions on or in his mouth or any thing going on in his oral mucus membranes, then you could get something. Be careful.
Good luck.
2007-07-31 00:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are comfortable recieving a bl0wjob, go ahead, and if you wear a condom, you will both be safe.
I think it is sweet of you to do this; it is not often that people care that deeply/want to give pleasure.
2007-07-30 20:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Rat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about him and want to give him pleasure, then I'd say let him. Who know's, maybe you're gay too?
2007-07-31 01:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by E.Q. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id tell him that you want an std test done before anything happens, if tests are negative let him blow you. and yes you can get an std from oral herpes that transfer to your penis. its best for both of you to get tested before anything pleasure exchanges.
better to be safe than sorry
2007-07-31 06:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by jamz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'd say you are gay. If you can become aroused from sexual contact with another man, you are gay. Simple as that. Not that it is a big deal, but don't be in denial about it.
2007-07-30 20:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
do what you want to do. And if you do it, make him wear a condom so there is alot less worry about STD's
2007-07-31 05:41:07 · answer #10 · answered by chris d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can get an std....I don't see the first question...
2007-07-30 21:30:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋