im 14 and going to be a freshman. never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. all the girls ive ever liked have been straight :[ I dont know how to flirt with girls and im a really shy person. how do i open up to a girl i like? how would i go about telling a girl that i like her? i just moved to las vegas and i dont want to feel like an idiot if i meet a girl, once i start school, and dont even know how to talk to her, you know?
2007-07-30 20:03:54 · 12 answers · asked by =D 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are 14 with a lot of life to live. Take it slow and let it come to you. Drinking and making sexual decisions at your age isn't a good idea.
2007-07-30 20:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by ©Diva© 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give is to just be open and come on just as if you were trying to pick up a guy or any other person. Girls like to be swooned too. Just be friendly and outgoing and such. You may want to make it aware that you are bi though because a lot of my lesbian friends don't go with bi's
2007-07-30 20:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
On account that you requested for advice, mine is to ensure your mouth is easy and your breath is contemporary. And sure, i am particularly severe. Other than that, just kiss her like you've kissed boys. But when this will likely be your first kiss, simply do what comes naturally -- kissing is a kind of matters that's awkward the first time, however most individuals get higher at it quite rapid.
2016-08-04 07:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, make sure the girl is either bisexual or lesbian, at least bi curios. Nothings going to become of it if she's straight. Then just be yourself, it's natural to get nervous, things like that, but as long as your you, and using words how you want to, you'll eventually get out what you want to say.
2007-07-30 20:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by curiosityreincarnated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Katie, That will take time. You don't want to scare off any friends you may meet. Wait and see how things go you should be able to feel if another girl is interested in you. It will take time don't get in a hurry.
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2007-07-30 20:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by poppy1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, I would try and slowly find out if the person is straight or not. IF not, then try to open up by talking. Then its up to you what you do next. IF need be, ask a person straight out.
2007-07-30 20:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering the fact which you asked for suggestion, mine is to confirm your mouth is sparkling and your breath is sparkling. And definite, i'm somewhat extreme. different than that, in basic terms kiss her such as you have kissed boys. yet while this may well be your first kiss, do exactly what comes certainly -- kissing is a variety of issues it particularly is awkward the 1st time, yet maximum folk get greater effective at it somewhat speedy.
2016-10-13 04:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by gustavo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, dont worry. if she is a good friend she may accept u. bt there r some friends that dont like the same sex. bt firstly go to a gal and try to b a one of her good friends. then slowly tell ur feelings to her. or if u can presume that a gal infront u that she is also (bi) slowly kiss her.
2007-07-30 20:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm straight and I've made out with lots of my girlfriends and more with some others. I'm shy too usually it's happened when drinking. So get a group of girlfriends together get to drinking and see what happens. But I don't know I love everyone when I drink and although I'm straight I love to make the first move on a girl just to show I can do it. haha Good Luck!
2007-07-30 20:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by MelC 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
ok first of all i read some of those answers and DON'T drink. that was bad advice.
try finding other lesbian/bi girls to like instead of straight ones who will disappoint you. if you fall in love with a straight girl, it's true there is some chance of her liking you back, but don't count on it.
2007-07-30 20:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋