well, my first idea is to get revenge, but the next best thing is to find a solution to the problem, then for get about it.
2007-07-31 03:27:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Forgiveness cant come from heart until u find a solution
& its not easy to forget ,so i will say find a solution dont try to run away from situation,face is.
Best of luck
2007-07-31 06:06:50
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answer #2
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answered by EYES ON U 4
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It's good to forgive. Especially because of the psychological implications to you. It's empowering, it's healthy and is part of getting over it.
MUCH TO PEOPLES SURPRISE HOWEVER; this really has nothing to do with forgetting. Forgetting is bad. Forgetting means whatever it was, was OK - it wasn't.
Forgetting leaves you open to whatever it was again.
You don't have to forget to forgive - but trust can't be passed around like cake on Milton's birthday. (Office Space reference)
Solutions take time. So maybe don't forget, try to forgive in time and if needed a solution will come. Though I usually say;
RUNN!!!! RUN LIKE HELL!
2007-07-31 04:06:29
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answered by chrism92661 3
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Forgive, but don't forget. The solution will come to you.
2007-07-31 03:00:24
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answered by Lucky S 6
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Don't be part of the problem -
Be part of the solution by forgiving and forgetting.
2007-07-31 03:00:11
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answered by missellie 7
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find a solution...i have tried to forgive and forget and that didn't work out
2007-07-31 03:00:05
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answered by NoLongerHere 7
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We are supposed to forgive, but we don't forget for a reason - to learn a lesson!!! Learn, and believe that things get better after a while, and make better choices.... the solution is already there. :-) bbjo.
2007-07-31 03:02:14
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answered by bb jo 5
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if you forgive and forget, then i guess that is your solution
if you can't forgive and forget, then that is your solution
2007-07-31 06:23:28
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answered by ladyjinx63 2
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find a solution..and if that doesn't work, guess you'll have to forgive and forget
2007-07-31 02:59:03
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answered by [insomniac] 6
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find a solution and try to forgive them or urself, but don't ever forget or u might find urself in the same situation.
2007-07-31 03:01:06
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answered by Lila 3
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Forgiveness is the final form of love
2007-07-31 03:00:02
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answered by Anonymous
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