help me everyone.my girl is 12days delayed. do you think she can take preg test? she stopped using pills last 3months and we engaged in u know this last july, and we expected her period to come by july 19 to 26. shes not regular. but she has been regular by 2months in may and june after she stopped using pills.. am very sure that she is not because i used witdrawal method in a way that 5secs before i *** its already out and she saw it. but she keeps on telling me that she is quite dizzy for now.. does the symptoms of preg and mens are somtimes the same?
2007-07-30 17:06:54 · 13 answers · asked by larrydlc 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
the pull out method is not safe in preventing pregnancy, a huge failure rate, get her to take a pregnancy test to find out for sure
gl to you
2007-07-30 17:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by froggy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay heres what you do.... I just went through this about four months ago and Guess what I am prego! Not to scare you... anyways, if she was expecting between the 19th and the 26th we will count her as four days late...which isnt alot if she isnt regular... so you wait ten more days and get an early detection home pregnancy test or you can go to a local health department, where they are usually free. However, if it negative I would follow up in a week if she still doesnt get he cycle and after that visit the obgyn because there are other things that keep you from getting a menstrual cycle. Yes it sucks to say that most premenstrual symtoms are the same of pegnancy excpept one... morning sickness which she most likely wouldnt have yet... but everyone is different. Since you "pulled Out" I would say you chances are lower than if you left it in but You are definitley NOT out of the water. If you want to know sooner than two weeks after her period is due then she can go to her doctor and ask for a pregnancy test and they will draw blood and let her know within one to two days. Good Luck I cant really tell if you are happy or upset but, Good Luck on whichever!
2007-07-31 00:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by shirley r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is 12 days late she can go to the chemist and buy a pregnancy test but she needs to do the test as soon as she gets up in the morning and goes to the toilet, If there are 2 lines there even if one is faint she is pregnant! if there is only 1 line she isnt pregnant.
Also Withdrawl method DOES NOT work because most guys pre come without even knowing. I would get her to go back on the pilll and use condoms!
2007-07-31 00:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, pull out method does not work!!! That is how my son was born. He is now 15 and I have to tell him NOT to try that with his girlfriend. Don't freak just yet though. Definately go get a pregnancy test, not a cheap one because they never work. They best one is EPT it is able to tell after 1 day of your period is missed. She also could just be about to have one hellacious period and is dissy and fatigued from that. But, get a test. If it is negative and her period still does'nt start in the next week or so, she needs to go see her OBGYN. Good Luck!
2007-07-31 00:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by laraprice2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took my test 11 days after I was supposed to have my period and it said positive. If she really is 12 days then even a cheapo test will be accurate. If it says negative and you are still worried go to the DR. Pulling out doesn't work. Precum is just as potent as the real thing. So she still could've gotten pregnant that way. Don't stress until you have a test or a DR. opinion.
2007-07-31 00:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Niky B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait until she is at least 10 days late to take a pregnancy test, although in both of my pregnancies the test didn't register positive until I was 20 days late, some women do not have enough of the necessary hormones at the 10 day mark to register a positive result. Take a test at 10 days late. If it registers negative, take another one in 10 more days if her period still hasn't started. The withdrawl method is very ineffective, if you want to prevent pregnancy, you need to use condoms.
2007-07-31 01:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by missbeans 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is possible that she is pregnant, but it is possible that it is from the discontinuation of the birth control. It regulates periods, and when a girl stops taking it, it can take up to six months to be regular again. Take a test, and if it's negative, tell her not to stress. Her being worried about pregnancy, or excited, can actually make her believe she's having symptoms.
2007-07-31 00:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by abcdefghijklmnop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I used the withdrawal method also. That is how we got our first child! LOL
Pulling out does not work, even though there are lots of people out there that think that it does. Now, that being said...yes, she can take a pregnancy test now, and it should be accurate. You can get them pretty cheap. Even the cheap ones should work at this point.
2007-07-31 00:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by April D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should take a test now. With her first pee in the morning if possible. And for your information pre-c*m has sperm in it and you can get someone pregnant with that. Use condoms if you don't want to have a baby. May be too late now, though.
2007-07-31 00:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by PK211 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to go to the doc but she not because it take at least 3 months for the pill to leave your systems.and it mess up you period and sometimes guys have the same symptoms as women. good luck
2007-07-31 00:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by shortie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋